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Give Yourself an Orgasm

How to have the most amazing orgasm ever, by yourself or with a partner.

The following steps may look cold and clinical because they are numbered; I have done this because it is important for things to be right for your particular needs. To have a fantastic sex life with your partner, you first need to understand your own body and what you enjoy.

1. SET THE SCENE

Close the curtains

Lock the doors

Turn off the lights

If you live in a cold climate, heat the room up, so that it feels quite hot when you are fully clothed

Take the phone off the hook and turn off mobile phones

Gather together everything you need, I would suggest some or all of the following, massage oil for your body, some personal lubricants, a vibrator, some condoms to cover your vibrator, a clitoral stimulator, I personally like to start with a normal body massager that is also heated.

2. GET STARTED

Lie yourself down on the floor, have some fluffy towels underneath you for comfort and to avoid stains on the carpet, if you have a wood burner or fire lie close to it, so you can feel the heat on your body. (But not too close, you don’t want to burn yourself when you get going)

Close your eyes and imagine how you would like this to go.

 Maybe you like things a little rough, imagine some stranger coming into your room, removing your clothes and doing whatever he wants to you.

Maybe you are the romantic type and want a man to win you and dine you, you are in a fabulous restaurant, good wine, good food and a good looking guy, your meal is over, he takes you to his room and treats you like the goddess you are.

Let your imagination run wild, undress yourself any way you feel, feel the warmth from the fire on your naked body take some massage oil, warm it in your hands, massage it into your body, starting with your stomach, work your way up to your breasts or down to your buttocks, if you have a massager, use it, if not, use your hands, feel the vibrations over your body, draw your feet up to your buttocks and let your knees fall outwards, by now you should be quite wet, allow your hands/massager to move up and down slowly over your clitoris and vagina, move slowly and gently at first, then build up the pace and friction, don’t hold back.

If you think you can wait.

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