How Do You Define Sexy?

Some people say that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. so I guess that applies to sexy too. Some women spend their whole lifetime staying on diets and sometimes being too thin, trying to please that certain someone. but as attractive as she might be. just being thin doesn’t make her sexy. Then there is the more plump women that maybe is forty or even fifty pounds over weight, she is a little shy about her extra weight but is very confident when she really dresses up and has her hair fixed nice and looks in the mirror and sees her real self.  Then there is the even larger size women very neat in appearance and very outgoing in her personality. which one of these would you say are most popular or preferred by the men? The answer is all three.  It is not all about your weight like the movie stars think. They are always focusing in on their selves and never satisfied and they think because their boyfriends or husbands left them for someone else, it must be because they aren’t thin enough. or she seems to think the reason why is she wasn’t  sexy enough to hold him. I have a friend that is thin and attractive. Not too long ago her husband, asked her for a divorce and recently she met the other woman. she wasn’t attractive as my friend and was probably forty pounds over weight. Did he think she was sexy?  I don’t think it was sexy, as you would think sexy is.  Their is a difference in sex and sexy.

 Sometimes men pick up on sexy, as being a certain way a woman walks or that unique subtle smile she has the minute he comes into view. To him that smile speaks louder than words. saying, I think you are special.   Sometimes sexy can be your laughter, and him knowing you are enjoying being with him even in doing simple things like walking in the park. And sometimes a man will think sexy is a woman’s long hair blowing in the breeze while she takes a stroll along the beach, wearing a skirt that is blowing  above her knees and leaving a lot to his imagination.  One of the ways  my husband seemed sexy to me was everyday while at work he would call me and hearing his voice on the phone and knowing he was thinking about me while working, made me have this very special feeling and closeness toward him.