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How to Achieve Orgasm

This article is written by a Registered Nurse in response to the numerous questions which were asked on yahoo answer. From now on the author will be able to refer persons with this problem to this article. I hope it satisfies many frustrated readers. I hope some achieve their first orgasm after reading this article.


I have been answering questions on yahoo answers on matters relating to sexual health. I noted that many young women wanted to know why they were not reaching orgasm. This article is in response to the many questions which are repeatedly asked on Yahoo Answers. The link to that site is found here. It is my hope that publishing an article like this will be informative and will reduce the number people who have to ask such questions publicly.

I was shocked to learn that one young lady had never experienced orgasm despite the fact that she was sexually active throughout her adult life. The numbers of questions relating lack of orgasms were and I chose to publish this article to make it available on the internet.

Definition of Orgasm: It is an intense sensation that occurs at the climax of sexual excitement that is accompanied by rhythmic muscle contractions and intense pleasure. This is followed by the release of sexual tension. In men, orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation. Definition from: www.4sexual-pleasure.com/definitions.html

Many people have never experienced and orgasm and do not know what it is. If you fall in this category you are not alone. You are in good company and have taken the first step to achieving an orgasm. I have defined orgasm above but remember it is different for each of us. Initially, there is the biological urge to have sex. During the sexual act a high is reached. This high is often referred to as climax. When climax is reached the ultimate experience occurs. There is no similar experience. It is the one time, briefly, one feels satisfied. After, orgasm the quality of sleep is very good.

Essential Elements of an Orgasm

Sexual preferences, partners, and preferred foreplay are all part of achieving an orgasm. These preferences are very personal and if you are aiming for orgasm you and your partner need to know the preferences of each other. Orgasm will not be achieved if you do not trust your partner.

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  1. Shergill

    On July 20, 2009 at 4:20 pm


    Men want to get in and out quickly.

  2. Guy Hogan

    On July 22, 2009 at 6:34 pm


    As a man I have always been fascinated with the female orgasm. I wrote a short story about it on Triond: http://www.authspot.com/Short-Stories/Orgasm.869803

    One way for a man to show his love and care and appreciate for a woman is to participate in her orgasm.

    http://www.writinghood.com/online-writing/this-is-the-reason-why-i-write-so-much-about-sex-on-triond/ is one of my popular items on Triond.

  3. Shergill

    On July 24, 2009 at 5:54 am


    Hi Guy Hogan,

    Not all men are as caring and as supportive as you are. I know the bar scene. It still talks of women as sex objects. I feel that I cannot express what I hear for it may offend many of our colleagues and women.

    I am positive enough to note that there are improvements is men’s attitude toward women.

  4. vjsinduja

    On September 4, 2010 at 10:06 am


    Most men just want to go in n come out once they’ve ejaculated. I am telling this coz, I know a friend who engaged in sex with her BF, and she had the same probs. She used to tell me her probs n worry about. Men should realize that women to have feelings n should give importance to them .

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