How to be a Great Lover

Maybe you think you’ve seen it all, you’ve heard it all, and you’ve read it all, but not quite, there a just a few more things you have to know to be the perfect lover.Remember, two bodies coming together, both filled with desires of a sexual nature, are about to create a work of Art that no one will ever duplicate, because it’s yours and only yours, so don’t rush this work of Art. Touch your partner till he or she can’t take it anymore. They can no longer stand the feelings that seem to be overwhelming them. Remember, the two of you are creating a work of Art, not to be rushed, and in creating this work of Art, the two of you will find something in each other, that neither of you knew existed.

I don’t care what you have seen, or read. The truth be known, you may already be a good lover, but are you great? Are you an Artist, or just a guy with an erection looking for a woman to share sometime with, no matter the outcome? Not too many men can proclaim to be great lovers, as many men aren’t patient enough with their women to achieve this greatness, in or out of the bedroom. There can be many reasons why, but the most important reason is communication. A woman may see a hot looking man, or a man may see a hot looking woman, and think to himself, wow, I bet she’s good in bed. Just because someone looks good, doesn’t mean that they are good in bed or good sexually, it just means that your mind perceives them to be good or great because they appeal to your image of the perfect sexual partner. In fact, just because they look good, they may actually be no good in bed, or good sexually. Remember, when looking at the woman, who turns you on. You aren’t looking at her naked, she’s dressed, and with the fashions of today, some women look better dressed than undressed.

Why would anyone ever consider a woman not being good in bed or in having sex? My God, she’s so beautiful, how could anyone that beautiful, not be good in the bedroom or in the sexual acts that the two of you are trying to have? The reason is, that some women just lie on their backs, and don’t participate in the act of making love. They have no communication skills and they want the attention with the foreplay and such, but they really don’t participate all that much.