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How to Dirty Talk: A Starters Guide

Some people like it when their spouse or partner talks dirty in the bedroom.

Before I go any further I’d like to warn the readers that this article contains adult language not suitable for conservative type people.

I have always enjoyed dirty talk in the bedroom and presume others do too. Dirty talk doesn’t come naturally to everyone, some people have to learn how to dirty talk. The purpose of this article is to explain some techniques when learning how to talk dirty.

I’m not a sex expert or doctor or anything, I just enjoy sex and know what I want, if my topic interests you, I’d recommend doing some further research on the subject.

I think dirty talk improves sex because it is adding more stimulation of the senses. Adding sound stimulates our sense of sound. The stereotypical moaning when having sex, usually is much the same and between a long term monogamist couple, can become less exciting over the years.

I’d now like to talk about specific concepts I’ve come up with to improve your sex life by using dirty talk.

Setting The Mood

Dirty talk can be used to get your partner in the mood for sex. Foreplay is an important part of a long lasting sexual relationship, adding dirty talk will help to arouse your partner.

Playing To Ego

Men usually love when you appeal to their ego. Anytime you can announce how good, hard or large something is that will help the experience of your lusty adventures.

Women tend to be different in what they want to hear. I can’t tell you what they like but much like any other part of the relationship you should talk to them about what they would like to hear while having some fun. Part of this discussion should include how open to new thing the woman is as well.

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  1. harbinger_of-doom

    On June 9, 2008 at 4:39 am


    where’s the adult language in there??? your title should have been DEFINITION OF DIRTY TALK, coz that’s the only thing that I got out of this piece of crap!

  2. Autumnrose

    On June 16, 2008 at 12:48 pm


    I would have to agree with the point that harbinger_of-doom is trying to get across although I would never have said it in such an insulting manner. Perhaps a better title would be Why Talk Dirty? or something along that line…

  3. country_ms_girl

    On October 13, 2008 at 11:54 pm


    And here I was getting my hopes all up. I want to learn how to talk dirty. I thought I was about to get some tips. But…guess I will have to keep looking. I know what dirty talk is. I just don’t know how to do it. Too bad I guess.

  4. Someguy675

    On February 21, 2009 at 1:58 pm


    I’m the author of this article, socyberty won’t let me post actual dirty talk examples :(

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