How to Get Her to Star in Your Homemade Sex Tape

Men are drawn to pornography like bees to honey. Unlike women, men are visually stimulated hence the attraction to nudity and pornographic material. Men like to see, women like to touch! One of the most intimate things a couple can do to spice up their sex life is make a homemade sex tape i.e. filming themselves having sex. It’s a really big turn on for men to be able to see themselves having sex with a partner on film. But how do you get her to star in your sex tape?

A lot of women are apprehensive about allowing themselves to be filmed in such an intimate and compromising manner. If you consider the number of leaked sex tapes and pictures that end up on the internet these days, you can’t really blame her. She’s not trying to be the next Kim Kardashian or Pamela Anderson after all. Making a sex tape with you is big leap of faith on her part.

If you really want to get her to star in your homemade sex tape, first she needs to know that she can trust you. Promising her that nobody will see the tape or that it won’t be stolen and wind up on the internet isn’t going to cut it. Instead, offer her the tape or DVD for safekeeping. That way, she’ll know that she is in possession and control over it at all times. This will go a long way in easing her fear that it might end up in the wrong hands. The thought of the sex tape being seen by anyone else other than the two of you is her worst nightmare in this department.

Let her direct the sex tape. Women are conscious of their bodies and she may not be into having her private parts filmed in extreme close-ups or having her body shown on tape in unflattering angles. Allow her to set the lightning and choose the camera angles. Being in complete creative control of the entire filming will ease her tension and allow her to let go and have a good time.

Lights, Camera, Action!