How to Give Her Multiple Orgasms

Always remember before reading this that if she wants a lot of little explosions or one huge inferno, it is for her to decide. This isn’t the time to flex your sexual prowess and try to make your woman come over and over again if she doesn’t want to – some woman just prefer the one peak. Remember that the goal is your woman’s satisfaction, not your ego’s inflation by hearing her scream repeatedly. Just listen to her or even ask her. Don’t make the mistake of assuming that you know what she wants and how she wants it. Take your time and pay attention to her and you’ll give her multiple orgasms.

Make it about her

Firstly you need to make her to understand that the night is all about her pleasure. Make her feel that you have the entire night to devote to her satisfaction, don’t pay any attention to the time it takes. Patience is the key. It will have multiple payoffs (i.e. give her multiple orgasms), but if you make her feel rushed, she will be less inclined to relax and feel comfortable — feelings that are not conducive to achieving multiples orgasms. One way to emphasize how much you enjoy making her feel good and to show her that it really is “all about her” is to bring her to orgasm through oral sex before penetration. She will feel that you really do want her to have a truly pleasurable night, and that you consider your satisfaction secondary. Don’t worry, when’s she has had enough you’ll get yours.

Try different variations

Learn the kind of stimulation she likes, such as clitoral, vaginal or G Spot, and then keep it that way, just change the position or technique. This will ultimately help you give her multiple orgasms. As an example, if your woman achieved her last orgasm quickly and easily through clitoral stimulation, hit the same trigger, but try a different angles or speeds. This will effectively help her to reach another intense orgasm. However, understand that after orgasm some women may experience an almost uncomfortably or unbearably sensitive clitoris and so she may not want to be touched in this area. When and if this occurs, attend to another sweet spot such as the G Spot.

Sweet talk her

While she rests from her latest mind-blowing peak, keep the momentum and energy going with your mouth, mind, lips, and tongue. I’m talking not talking about going down on her, I’m about keeping her mind sexually engaged and her body humming with sweet words. If you really want to maintain her physical desire, describe and tell her how amazing she feels, and how she’s driving you insane with her beautiful body. Be as creative and inventive with your words as you like. Most women enjoy feeling a firm strong grip on their body, so take hold of her as you ready her body for yet another orgasm. She’ll definately appreciate your pillow talk and physical desire. The sexier and more comfortable you make her feel, the more she’ll let go.