How to Have Sex When You are a Virgin 2
by More advice on your virginity status.
You might be wondering what more there is to write about trying to maintain a healthy sex life when you are a virgin- but believe me, there is so much that you need to learn, especially if you want to know what to expect when you are finally ready to loose your virginity. Sex is something that most people crave- it is in our nature to mate and to find a partner- so what is it that you need to know, before you embark on your quest to fulfill mankind’s destiny?
- To begin with, the most important thing that you need to know, is how to satisfy yourself. After all, if you don’t know what you want, then how are you supposed to know what your future partner wants. Teach yourself the basics through sensual touch- begin by running your finger tips over your skin so that you can imagine what it will be like to have someone else do this to you, then explore your intimate self and discover what makes you tick. The more you practise, the more you will learn and you will be ready to impress all of your future girlfriends and/or boyfriends!
- The next thing you need to know, is how the opposite sex works. Now this can be quite difficult if you have never had any sexual contact- however it is not impossible. What you need to do is study the opposite sex, so look at some full profile pictures, search the web and familiarise yourself with what everything looks like. Then you need to know how to satisfy the opposite sex and to do this, you might want to do some light reading on sexual experiences etc.
- Once you have mastered the art of pleasuring yourself and you think that you know how the other species works, then you need to get some experience! That doesn’t mean that you should go out and sleep with all of the people that you meet, but you should start looking for that special someone who you know is going to rock you world.
- You are probably wondering who is going to want to date a virgin, right? Well, plenty of people that’s who! If you like someone and they like you, then that doesn’t mean that you have to blurt out that you are a virgin straight away- only tell them when they are ready and if they are the right person for you, then they will talk your through and guide you in everything that you need to know.
- Go for it! One of the biggest mistakes that people can make when it comes to loosing their virginity, is holding onto it for years and years until they find someone that they love, and whereas this is commendable it is not necessarily the best course of action. Yes, you should only sleep with someone that you trust and respect, but that doesn’t mean that you should marry the first person that you do it with, remember, experience is key!
Good luck!
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Post Commentmiss cornelia
On February 9, 2009 at 2:11 am
I completely and totally disagree with almost everything you said. I was a virgin when I met my very experienced husband and he was as clueless about pleasing me at first as I was about pleasing him. We learned after being together for quite some time and now it couldn’t be better. Even though I have nothing but our earlier sex life to compare it to, he says now that I do things for him that he never knew a woman could. By the way, all his previous partners were experienced too and that didn’t help them be better lovers.
c reid
On February 9, 2009 at 9:26 am
I’m sorry that what I wrote offended you, and you are right- some people like you settle down and loose their virginity to the man that they marry and I didn’t mean to cause you any offence. But this article is supposed to be humorous- and is written only from my own knowledge- it is not written in stone!It is merely some advice that I recieved when I was a virgin and it actually helped me to find my husband.
Thank you for your comments- incidently, why are you reading about loosing your virginity when clearly this does not apply to you?
fried
On March 1, 2009 at 8:11 pm
well i am a virgin and i think that you say everything right and i like your advice and i think i might just find that someone special.
abra
On March 17, 2009 at 5:06 am
maybe it happen but just try to put in more
honest woman
On March 18, 2009 at 4:31 pm
i’m sorry but i don’t agree with you.saving one’s virginity for marriage is great.the feeling you have when having sex for the first time with your husband is something that lasts for ever and builds up a sound relationship based on love , trust and compassion.the unforgettable moments of discovering this sexual pleasure for women and enjoying breaking the hymen and teaching their parteners for men is worth waiting.
TMI
On April 5, 2009 at 3:32 am
Doesn’t it make you wonder where one gets gratification if not in actual flesh? Wouldn’t it be fair to say that, barring highly abnormal hormone levels, anyone would have to ‘get off’ to alernative vices, to keep instincts at bay? All of which are also potentially perverted( not natural)and would also likely lead any religious figure to chastise these actions/thoughts/feelings?
kissing
On May 12, 2009 at 5:05 pm
it stunk
hummm
On May 14, 2009 at 9:49 am
?????
Nate
On October 21, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Is nothing sacred anymore? Sex is the ultimate act of intimacy and should only be performed within the ultimate human relationship, which is marriage.
Romanleon
On January 7, 2010 at 1:18 am
It is painful once you have found the one that you want to be with forever and you know you have slept with others and them too. You feel guilty and so do they; and then you regret things about them, for they are things that are stolen from something special that was for two people only. But now you feel shared and will never feel that you had your love all to yourself. You feel cheated, uneasy, especially if those people are still near in your life. It is full of horrible feelings, I suggest to save your virginity till you have found that someone for the rest of your life – even if you have to wait till 27. It is better to wait than to live with an ache that she or he wasn\’t all yours. Especially on your wedding – when your a man who has never done a virgin – and now you never will and it should have been sacred for you. Life is a regret, some worse than others – it always hurts, just don\’t forget the pain. Save it as long as you can.
LoveDoctorLoveGoodBye
On January 8, 2010 at 1:27 am
I don’t agree with you on the principle that the biggest mistake a woman can make is to hold on to her virginity until she finds a guy who she really loves, whereas she should wait to find someone who she trusts. I am guessing you are speaking from your own personal experience. These days, we live in a very liberal society where everything revolves around sex. With the exception of a few, society has lost its morals and values. People switch partners like taking off their underwears. Society should promote abstinence more, but they don’t thinking that teens and adolescents are going to keep having sex and they won’t think it’s cool. Well, my friend. By being promiscuous, they are going to end up catching a disease. And don’t believe all the lies men will tell you just to get in your pants. This is not about being prude. It’s about waiting and waiting as long as you can and if you can until the guy who you are worth proves that he is worthy. If a guy can’t accept you for who you are and what you are bringing to the relationship, then he is not worth a dime.
tommy
On February 24, 2010 at 4:47 pm
i want to know haw to have sex being a virgin not haw not to freak out when you are about to have it this is the one place i could fink of with out being embarrassed and the one thing to learn is mastibate and i guess that is nothing like the reel thing