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How to Get a Woman Into Bed

Even if you usually have a very high success rate at seducing women… which is, quite frankly unlikely, as most men have no idea of how to seduce women, and I do not think you would be reading this page if you were good at it… you will need to know how a woman’s mind works and what she wants before you succeed.

When a woman goes to bed with a man she is thinking of all sorts of things.  Some are thinking they hope it will lead to love, romance, lots of meets and maybe living together or getting married and maybe even having kids!  A man can often want to go to bed with a woman with only that on his mind, her mind is more complicated and looks at the whole scenario and wonders what is in it for her.  Most women hate a man who comes across as sex starved, lonely, desperate or unfussy.  If you seem to be spinning a line that says that you must have sex with any woman then that will put 95% of women off…. unless she is a prostitute and is charging you.  The majority of women think that sex is something to do with love and friendship and if they are not getting the love and friendship too they lose interest.

You have to also remember that women can easily get a man for sex and she will already have several men she can choose from whether it is only a sexual relationship or a full relationship she is looking for.  Unless she is old, fat and ugly she will already have a few good options,  so you need to at least match up to the options she already has.  Some women go for looks and chemistry,  others look for a secure committed relationship, others look for a man who is well heeled financially and generous enough to look after them financially.  If the woman is beautiful and young she will probably only be interested in a man who is good looking and very wealthy and generous too.  She does not have to make do or settle for second best.  So be realistic.  If you are old, fat and ugly and want someone who is young and gorgeous you will probably not get anywhere unless you are very wealthy and she goes for a man’s money.

One of the best ways to get a woman into bed is to make her feel relaxed,  make her feel like you are her best friend and you love to listen to her and give her opinions, advice, support or sympathy.  Another way is to laugh them into bed.  Usually a mix of these two work well.  Romance may seem outdated now but it usually works and the fact that most men do not bother will work in your favour. Sending her flowers, chocolates, taking her out for candlelit meals, having a favourite song all work towards making her feel like she is comfortable with you and can trust you.

But do not forget there is more to it than getting her into bed.  She will not just lay there and smile and say whatever you want during the act or after it. She may expect you to keep your promises.  If you have promised to see her again tomorrow then you must, otherwise you will have a very hurt, upset and angry lady on your hands.  Do not get tempted to make promises you may not be able to or may not want to keep in your effort go get sex with her. For one thing,  even if you succeed today she would never speak to you again or make your life difficult.  Sometimes honesty is important, here it is,  and playing the long game is important too.

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