How to Tell If a Woman is Faking Orgasms
by Women fake orgasms, deal with it. After years of practice they have become experts. No one can blame them; women have the necessary skills to fake it and they like it. Well, they don’t exactly like it, but it sure makes their life easier sometimes. Is there a way to tell if a woman in faking orgasm? There are some useful clues that can help you in this. Here are some of them.
There are many reasons why women fake orgasm. Usually it’s because they are tired, stressed out, and sometimes because their partner is not that good in bed.
Usually men can’t tell if a woman is faking orgasm because they don’t read between the lines. If her breathing becomes harder and faster that does not mean that she is having orgasm. Sometimes it can be a good sing, but sure it’s not the only one. Okay, some will say that the easiest way to find out is to ask a woman. But do you really expect to hear an honest answer?
If you really want to figure out weather she is faking it, go through this checklist.
Heart beating like hell
You will feel this if her orgasm is for real. There is no way to control this unless she is ZEN master. But then again, if she is, you probably want be having sex in a first place. It’s simple, women can breathe hard and fast, but the heart rate will stay the same or will increase just a bit.
Breathing Hard and Strong
Okay, remember that this sign is not enough, but still, it will happen if she is having orgasm.
Vaginal Contractions
It’s sad, but some men don’t know what this is; not to say that some have never experienced this whit a woman during sex. On the other hand, many women have vaginal contractions, i.e. contractions of the muscles surrounding the vagina during orgasm. So if you never felt this, she is most probably faking it.
Sweat
Women sweat less than men. No doubt about that. Only one thing can change this – orgasm. Men sweat because they often have to work hard, both in work and bed. Women don’t sweat as much, but if it happens suddenly and unexpectedly while you were having sex, that can be one of the best signs that she had orgasm (a big one).
Silence
There are two situations in which women don’t like to talk; first, when they are mad at you and second, after they had an orgasm. Okay, maybe she is mad at you because she didn’t have orgasm, but that is not likely. So, if there is a silence right after, you can tell that she was not faking orgasm.
More Sex
Just like men, women are very sensitive after having orgasm; this goes especially for certain areas. It can be even painful for her to have more sex, so she definitely want be asking for more. Well, at least for some time.
So if you still can’t tell if she is faking it, than she probably is. Perhaps only consolation is that you are not the only one who got scammed like this; or if you were that bad, you will likely never see her again.
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Post CommentHelloSiti
On July 16, 2009 at 8:11 am
Why faking orgasm is important and how about the men themselves?
The most important is a man must entertain his partner of sex (a woman) successfully and a woman also must entertain her partner of sex (a man). They must fill their hearts each other. That’s why the sexual intercourse between husband and wife becomes enjoyable.
The man must do his job simultaneously until the woman feel the satisfaction. It is a must according to my rasul’s (prophet’s)teaching!
HelloSiti
On July 16, 2009 at 8:18 am
Revision:
… until the woman feels the satisfaction.
Anyway, LOL, nice picture above!
Isha
On July 16, 2009 at 8:55 am
Bravo…! To the men smart enough to know when a woman is having a real orgasm or a fake one.
LOVELYHONEY
On July 16, 2009 at 11:40 am
If a woman has slept with many men
It’s not going to be easy
For anyone to tell whether or not
She is experiencing an orgasm
Only when a girl is in pure lovely relationship
She will let you know
That she’s done
And if you are talking of paid sex
Just forget the orgasm part of it
Without 29 minutes of foreplay,
Oral, mental and physical
No woman wills ever orgasm
And unlike man
Who is ready to ejaculate?
Any moment
No men can an orgasm fathom
Tanya Wallace
On July 16, 2009 at 5:32 pm
An interesting article that should be in a magazine.Great job.
Jasmine
On July 17, 2009 at 2:26 am
Heart beating like hell – yes
Breathing Hard and Strong -sometimes
Vaginal Contractions -yes
Sweat – rare
Silence –
))))
more – again
Excellent advice, but how to tell my boyfriend to read this article.
Ruby Hawk
On July 17, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Women are different. These signs don’t apply to everyone, but good try and excellent article.
Littlekid137
On July 18, 2009 at 10:17 am
Great Article!!
And Ruby Hawk, you totally contradicted youself.
Christian
On July 20, 2009 at 2:59 am
My husband and I are 14 months into recovery from his affair. While no affair is identical, there are common threads to all of them, as well as to recovery from them. Of course you are very conflicted right now, and you are not getting the most Catholic of advice from this thread.
Your first stop should be to the doctor – for your health. If you haven’t already, you should stop sleeping with him until you are both cleared for STDs and until he is ready to commit to you again.
Your next stop should be to your priest. He can guide you how to move from here in an appropriate fashion.
You can consider seeing a lawyer for some advice. It certainly doesn’t hurt to have a little legwork done in that area if your husband is as unstable as he sounds. You don’t want him to hit you with divorce/separation paperwork unawares. BUT, that doesn’t mean you have to file yourself – it just means that you are prepared in case.
Be VERY careful about who you tell. It is very difficult for your parents/siblings to move past this if you end up staying together. Find a couple of close friends who will support you no matter what you chose. (And I am available through PM if you want.)
He said he is willing to try but not sure if he can change. That is where your relationship is. He will need to agree to marital counseling as well as individual counseling. He will need to have some accountability to you and perhaps an accountability partner (a man, perhaps the priest). If he does not become willing to do these things, you will need to consider separating. No matter what he choses, you MUST get counseling for yourself. Definitely do not move on as if nothing happened.
As Kage_ar said, you did not vow, “until affair do us part.” Research shows that most couples who divorce quickly, regret that decision within 5 years. If your husband is willing to do his part, take some time to figure out what is best for you and your marriage. It may mean staying and it may mean divorcing, but it is too new and painful to make that decision (again, IF he is willing to do the work).
Sometimes marriages end after these situations, but if both parties do the work and stay together, they usually find that their marriage is better and more fulfilling than before.
God bless you during this very difficult time. PM me whenever.
MARC
On August 1, 2009 at 2:17 pm
thanks for advice man,
)))
last night I have caught her faking
I didn’t said anything
emmahaynes
On August 14, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Overall a pretty good article and I’m not being a whiney little smart ass when I say this but go over the article again and edit it. There are a few spelling and punctuation mistakes, believe me when I say that this is constructive criticism! As writers we all make the same mistakes and I wouldn’t want you too miss out on precious ratings because of a typo.
The article also has a kind of anti-female feeling to it, as though we fake it in order to annoy men or scam you out of your manhood! Just a thought but I know when I have faked it in the past it has been out of consideration towards my partners feelings. It’s not nice being told your rubbish.
Kind regards
Emma Haynes
ranjani prakash
On November 19, 2010 at 4:31 am
awesome… u sure know more about women…good read…
JoeStone
On December 27, 2010 at 8:34 pm
Great article and I enjoyed reading it, good job!