How to Turn Her On: Biggest Turn-Ons for Women
by What turns women on? There is really no mystery, when it comes to turning women on. Become a better partner and you’ll enjoy better sex.
6. Cleanliness–Clean up for her. If you have loving in mind, make sure your body is clean. This may seem obvious but some men overlook it and then wonder why their partner avoids physical contact and intimacy. “Down and dirty” doesn’t cut it for many women.
7. Emotional Strength–Women respect men who have emotional strength. If you are her rock to lean on, she may reward you by leaning on you at other times.
8. Values & Attitude–A big turn-on for a woman is your value system. Yes, that’s right. One of the biggest turn-offs is the male who is arrogant or a chauvinist. Modern women have little truck for males who think women are inferior, while believing themselves to be masters of the universe. These outmoded attitudes often result in these “masters” spending their time alone.
9. Domestic Maturity–One of the biggest turn-ons for a woman is the man who cooks for her. Women tire of the seven-days-a-week monotony of cooking and a man who actually cooks for them can seem incredibly sexy. This makes sense when you think about it. Women aren’t as physically strong and they tire easily. Unlike men, when a woman is tired, she is too tired for sex. Period. At the end of a long day, a man who lightens a woman’s load may find she has more energy left for other things.
With the pressures increasing on women to work, raise children, and still look after domestic matters, a big turn-on is the man who mature enough and willing enough to shoulder some of the load.
10. Be Her Best Friend–Finally, be her best friend. If she enjoys spending time with you, chances are she will enjoy intimacy and will be a willing physical partner.
There are really no big secrets about how to turn women on. Women treasure close, loving relationships. If a man pays attention to forging a strong connection with the woman in his life, this will, in most cases, act like a master switch that ignites her passion.
Rule of thumb: turn on her emotions and you’ll turn HER on.
Sex: How to Turn Your Woman On – Dr. Sheri Meyers
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Post CommentChambo
On August 29, 2009 at 4:22 am
I’ll keep these tips in mind. Thanks Athlyn.
RJ
OhSugar
On August 29, 2009 at 7:11 am
Great list of dos and don’ts when it comes to turning on a woman. Nice.
Nikita K
On August 29, 2009 at 9:46 am
Very true Athlyn! You couldn’t be any more right!
Athlyn Green
On August 29, 2009 at 12:48 pm
It’s interesting that I hear men saying that if they just had a hotter body or more charisma, they would get the hot chicks. While in some cases, this might be true, I know from speaking to most women that they need to feel connected to their partner. If that part of the relationship is solid, intimacy usually isn’t a problem.
Stephen J. Ardent
On August 29, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Great article. How I wish that it were entirely true. My experiences as a male have left me with a matured and guarded cynicism regarding what women say they really want.
cebuanaeyez
On August 29, 2009 at 6:32 pm
I always wanted a relationship that starts out being bestfriends. Love it.
Athlyn Green
On August 29, 2009 at 6:46 pm
Hi Stephen,
While there are always exceptions to the rule, women are pretty clear that they seek close emotional connections. This is why, increasingly, women are turning to other women because they look for these kinds of relationships.
Because of gender differences, these are not always easy to achieve with someone of the opposite sex. Men and women tend to be geared differently and this can cause problems.
Hi Cebuana,
Yes, it’s hard to sustain a physical relationship if you don’t feel close to the person.
Louie Jerome
On August 30, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Yes, I agree, all those things are important but there is something that turns me on much more than any of these.
CHOCOLATE!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
Athlyn Green
On August 30, 2009 at 5:21 pm
My word, how did I forget the chocolate? I swear there’s a substance in it . . .