I Love Sex

There is no doubt that sex is a controversial topic, I can see why but it’s a part of life and you can’t escape it. I am very open and comfortable about my sexuality, ofcourse; i’m not going to go to church and rave about my sex life–but if someone asks–i’ll tell it how it is. I am not ashamed and I don’t see why anyone should be, sex is a beautiful thing! However, I wasn’t always like this; less than a year ago–I considered myself to be asexual– I wasn’t sexually attracted to anyone, I had no desire to have sex and I was just not interested in anybody.

But all that changed, and that was the day I met my lovely boyfriend, who I give complete credit to for reviving my sex drive and reminding me how wonderful and exhilarating it can be. In my opinion, in order for your sex life to be marvellous–theres got to be more than just a physical attraction–it’s about that connection with the mind and soul. Sure, lots of sex happens because that girl has a great bum or because that guy is packing some heat–but can it get any more interesting than that if there isn’t something more than just the physical aspect? I mean when did sex become so superficial? I have sex with my boyfriend over 5 times a day and it never gets dull–we always try to change it around when it comes to positions, where we do it and even the intensity. Did you know that the more you have sex, the more it releases hormones that make you want it even more? no wonder i’m such a horndog! Sex has helped me in so many aspects, it’s not only for pleasure and personal enjoyment–but if it was, I can live with that.

I’ve been known to have my anger issues, I tend to want to throw a punch or two at times–but instead what I do nowadays is I throw my boyfriend on the bed, and take all my aggression and pent up anger on him. Works like a charm! Sex is proven to release tension–so goodbye anger! And you know what ladies, your doing your man a huge favor! Men who have sex often (more than 4 times a week) cut their risk of heart attacks in half! so sex it up fellas and thank your lady when the deed is done. I’ve never been one to brag about being fit, i’m not really a health nut but I have a hot and tight bod thanks to all the epic sex i’ve been having! If your too lazy about going to the gym, or don’t have the money–stay home and get sexy–you’ll save your money and just one 30 minute session with your lover will burn you 30 calories! Another great tip I have for you all, look into yoga sessions with your significant other–you can look videos up online or buy books–yoga and sex is the ultimate high–an effective way to boost your libido! Tantric sex, stimulating eachothers senses to the max and connecting on the next level. People forget how important it is to cater to one anothers senses when it comes to sex, it’s not just about getting naked and getting it ‘out’.

There are many things couples can do to spice up their sex life, there are married couples who don’t even have sex at all because things have died down. Who says it’s the end of you? Just because the honeymoon is over? Don’t make excuses ladies! Your man is more than willing to take you to orgasm–so return the favor and stop slacking. Pop open a bottle of wine, or your favorite bubbly–make a sexy playlist of music that will set the mood, light up some candles– wear your sexiest lingerie. Even watching an erotic movie is a great idea! As long as you make an effort and show your significant other that you still want it, it will happen in the most amazingly, steamiest absolutely and utterly orgasmic way ever. I’ve made it a point time and time again to my boyfriend, that I am in it to win it! I have not once lost interest in him because we put the effort to please eachother, to cater to our senses and we’re not afraid to sweat a (lot) bit. So with that said, enjoy eachother, embrace your sexuality and stay young! Afterall, sex is proven to slow the ageing process