Lazy 21st Century Sex?

21st-Century life, loaded with stress and long working hours, is taking its toll on the nation’s sex life. People just aren’t as inclined to sex as they once were, and less than a third of women have the national average amount of sex, at least twice a week , while 43 per cent suffer from problems such as low libido or inability to climax.

There is even a new type of couple, according to psychologists, called DINS – Dual-Income, No Sex professionals, who are just too tired for regular sex. Reports show a 240% increase in the number of people seeking counselling on sexual matters, and this could be just the tip of the iceberg.

When love lives are at a low ebb, most people bury their heads in the sand. In other words, they are just too lazy to work at good sex.. Even the least motivated person can get things sizzling again, if they really want to, and girls tend to need this motivation more, because they tend to be less sex oriented than the guys.

Give your girl these tips.  She just might love you forever, There are, apparently, five optimum positions for great sex. The ‘Coital Alignment Technique’ (CAT) is ideal because it gets her clitoris in on the action.

Lying on top of her , he lines up his pelvis over hers. This means he lies higher up her body than usual, resting on elbows so that when he enters her, he’s riding high. He will then press against your pubic bone and clitoris as he thrusts. She push up with her pelvis as he pushes down. Press against each other and keep your pace steady, then, when you orgasm, it will be really intense.

Try stimulating her elusive G spot, by getting her to lie down with her back completely straight. She should hook her legs over his shoulders and get him to hold on to her hips as he enters her . Once he starts thrusting, his penis will hit her G-spot area. By toning the muscles in her vagina, she can enhance orgasms and make them so powerful, she can cause her man to come.

To build them up, she just needs to  stop the flow of urine when she’s on the toilet, for 10 to 15 seconds before releasing. If she does this regularly, it will boost her sex life tenfold. The best position for testing these muscles is the woman on top. She should try moving in small circles as she lifts up and down. When he can’t bear any more teasing, she should bear down and clench her Pelvic Floor muscles so he can feel her gripping.