Making Love: Are You Doing It Right?

How to make love to a woman

Let me first begin by saying that there is a difference between making love, sex, and, to keep things clean, screwing. So let’s differentiate between them.

Sex is the simple act of two people getting together doing what is instinct…since we are all primates we have the innate ability already programmed in our brains to reproduce. So there you have it…that’s pretty simple.

Screwing on the other hand, is when two people get together just get off. Like any other bodily function, such as hunger or thirst, we become horny…and we just, “get it done.” It’s much the same as masturbating only we have someone there with us to help finish the job.

So now that those two definitions have been explained…we move to “making love.” And for the purposes of this article, we shall define and interpret it as a man “makes love” to a woman. As I’m sure you ladies out there can attest to…sometimes men have a warped sense of what making love really means.

Making love to woman should really be considered an art form because it takes talent to do it the right way…something men quite often overlook because, well…they’re men. But before you lump us all together…some of us really do know how to do it right. Some of us do understand that in order for a woman to be fully satisfied, not only is there a physical need, but there is also a mental and an emotional orgasm that needs to be given in order to complete the whole process. A night of love making may end in the bedroom but it begins long before that.

Let’s begin by stating that “making love” can really only happen within a relationship that has been ongoing for a while…a relationship where the two people already know each other fairly well and can use non-verbal communication to get across what they’re thinking. Give me a look, give me a gesture, or give me some body movement that I can read and know what it is you’re trying to say. Only in that stage of a relationship is it possible to make love…until then, it’s still just screwing or having sex. Why? Because until then you’re still in the lust phase of the relationship. You know what I mean, no matter what she does, you picture her doing it naked…hormones kick in….clothes come off…and BOOM…off somewhere to satisfy the urge, but fear not…it’s both people in the relationship…it’s just the phase your going through.