Making Love: Are You Doing It Right?

However, once you reach the “making love” stage of the relationship…it could go one of two directions. The first direction could be the end of the relationship. The two of you have had so much sex in such a small amount of time that it has become boring and you no longer want it. Sorry to say, but that’s the downside of screwing and/or just “having sex.” Something was lost along the way.

The second direction is that the relationship has now become more fulfilling concerning all aspects and “love” has entered the picture. Once “love” enters the relationship…”making love” should soon follow. Now you start to appreciate what you have, not taking it for granted…cherishing what you have. So now is the time to put a little thought and effort into what you are doing. So let’s lay out the perfect evening leading up to a fantastic night of “making love.” Keep in mind it doesn’t have to be recognizing an anniversary, a birthday, or a celebration of any sort…ANY night can be a special night.

So let’s begin by giving the woman something special. Flowers that she likes, a perfume that she likes, or even a sexy piece of lingerie that the two of you can share, but make sure it’s something that will make her feel special and sexy…every bit the woman that she is and that makes you feel lucky to be with her.

Next, set the mood. This can be done by taking her to her favorite restaurant or cooking her favorite meal, having a nice, quiet romantic dinner at home…just the two of you. Add some candlelight and some of her favorite music in the background…remember…this is the woman you love and the only woman in the world that you want to “make love” to. It’s also important to dress up in something that she likes to see you in…whatever that may be.

After dinner, don’t rush things. Talk to her…find out how her day went. Let her know that you care and be sincere about it…they can tell when you’re faking. After a couple of drinks, move closer to her, putting your arm around her and look into her eyes…take the time to look at her…admire her beauty…think about how lucky you are to have her. At this point, you can grab her hand and guide her to the bedroom. While she goes into the bathroom, putting on some lingerie to turn YOU on….set the mood. More candlelight….more music of her liking.

Once she exits the bathroom, looking sexy in her lingerie. Invite her over to the bed, taking her hand, pulling her toward you, kissing her lips. Feeling her skin and her hair…appreciating every inch. At this point, the guy is just wanting to get naked and move forward, but that’s where they make the mistake…they overlook the foreplay and want to dive right in (no pun intended.)

Then when the two of you are hot an bothered, it’s time to remove the clothing…slowly, teasing a bit…”accidentally” touching areas that you know make her want you even more, but there’s really no need to go into explicit detail about what happens when everyone is naked…the point is…MAKE LOVE to her. Stretch it out and make it last for at least an hour if not more and when you’re BOTH (the key word here is BOTH) finished…savor the moment. Don’t just turn over and go to sleep or go to the living room and watch the game…make sure she’s satisfied.

In the end, this type of love making can only enhance your relationship and not leave you someday alone in the future asking yourself – “what happened?”