Male Sexual and Emotional Immaturity

Okay, today I will start with my thesis and my disclaimer.  My central argument today is that many men do not know how to see women as anything other then objects to have sex with in life.  My disclaimer is that being afraid of information and getting personally offended when you read something based on study and facts is counterproductive.

Many will disagree but men learn about sex from media and their peer groups.  Fathers rarely have honest discussions about sex with their male children.  In reality, we live in a society where men and women are afraid to educate their children about physical intimacy.

Now, let me define some terms.  What exactly is correct “sexual education”? This is education that teaches an appreciation for self-respect, respect of others, all the emotions related to sex, and adherence to higher standards.

Modern sexual liberation states you can use sex as recreation.  You no longer need to have feelings for a person.  You just have to have an itch and scratch it.

For the most part you are in charge of your life and if these are the morals you want to live by then who am I to fight with you?  However, I see many people wondering why they cannot get out of their intimate relationship what they need, want, and desire.

For some men the simple answer is that they have incomplete perceptions of love and intimacy.  For men, women are nothing more than sex objects.  These are the message their interpersonal relationships and modern media have taught them. 

Yes, it is possible to have nothing but physical relationships with people.  There are no more lines.  All over the world men are getting lucky when a car load of young pretty women pull up to them and ask them if they want to go some where and have sex with all of them.  Therefore, all forms of intimacy are possible in our world.

In my opinion, the question is not if it is morally right.  The question I have is it correct.  Again, I state that none of the people I have met who claim to be happy with just sexual relationships are not actually happy.

Therefore, sex for sex’s sake is not enough to fill the person.  In a conversation on why marijuana is a starter drug I explained to the person that exposure to a certain amount of drug eventually leads to your body getting used to it and the use of the same amount no longer leads to pleasure.  Therefore, he or she increases their use in order to get pleasure.  Again the body adjusts and more of the drug is needed for pleasure.  Eventually, the person moves on to greater drugs.