Masturbation: Getting to Know the Real You

Somewhere along the way I heard an old saying, “If you want something done right, you have to do it yourself.”

A good phrase that applies to most things – including masturbation.

Let’s be honest with ourselves and admit that nobody can know your body better than you.  Only you can really know those special areas that create a frenzied state of arousal.  It’s been my experience over the years with some partners…that they’re not always in tune with another person’s body.  Okay, okay. What I’m trying to say is that some people don’t have a clue about sex and they are really, really bad at it.

If you’ve ever wondered while being in a relationship if masturbating was a wrong thing to do – I say NO!  Sex is a part of a relationship, and if you don’t get it as frequently as you would like, then masturbating is a better alternative to cheating or having an affair.  The key here however is: don’t let masturbation become a substitute for sex with your partner.

Think masturbation is not an issue?  Some people do it by choice…not having a desire to be in a relationship.  In that case, what other alternative is there? 

Without going into explicit detail, there have been a few times when I  had to finish myself because the other person didn’t OR the times when the other person wasn’t in the mood but I was…I’m sure some of you out there can relate. 

Some people’s sex drive is so insatiable that it becomes a necessity and in other cases it becomes a routine.  It’s a part of being human.  I personally don’t see anything wrong with it as long as you inform your partner you’re doing it, in which case, it shouldn’t become an issue.

If you’ve ever visited adult novelty shops in your area or on the Internet, you’ll see that there are a plethora of devices for both men and women on the market today for masturbating – a clear indication that people are doing it with regularity and taking additional steps by adding things to enhance the experience.

All in all, if you have to do it…by all means do it…and most importantly - enjoy yourself. 

That’s the whole point!