My Boyfriend Does Not Like … My Lips!

When sexual dysfunction does not exist, they should be invented? Thus it appears that many young people think early sex life and who see problems including where they do not exist.

Here’s an example of a reader who asked for advice sexpertului CSID service, Iris bugaboo, desperate lover observations at … her labia!

“I’d like to answer a question that I grind for a long time and that causes me great discomfort. I am 21 years old and a friend of 3 years. For the last three months, my boyfriend told me not likes a certain part of my body, ie not like lips that are too big for my. This causes me great discomfort when they become more intimate. I do not know what to do because then no longer the same person and you no longer look like before, I feel somewhat embarrassed. “

“Certainly this problem is not trivial. It is very important to feel comfortable that this person have a relationship, especially when it comes to sex. I think the first thing you should do in a Such a situation would be an open discussion with your friend on this topic, the discussion to explain how much I have affected his statements, ask him how it bothers him it was only now, after three years of relationship , ask him what expected of you , if it bothers him so much that can not continue the relationship with you.

It would also be interesting to learn from him on what to report when it says that your labia are too large . He saw others in the meantime and no longer supplies like yours, it somehow bothers during intercourse , or simply where the idea came?

On the other hand, it is interesting to know and say HOW you said it . At just said, you accuse, he joked about it? It matters very much how you say something, especially when it is a sensitive topic like the present. My recommendation is to have this discussion with him first and then to write to me, “said Iris bugaboo.

On the other hand, in such cases, many women resort to cosmetic surgery designed to improve the appearance of labia, both of the large and the small ones. The operation is called labioplastie and, through it, the plastic surgeon to shrink them to the same size or if there are differences in terms of aesthetic annoying.

However, after surgery there is a high risk of complications, including infection, urinary diconfort, hematomas and prolonged bleeding. Above all these, there is a risk that the nerve endings are destroyed, resulting in desensitization of the area and, consequently, destroy your sex life.