Older Men and Women Who Never Experienced Love Before

I was watching this program on Channel 4 about some people who reach their 30’s and 40’s and have not had physical intimacy with anyone in their entire life till date. It is quite surprising to find some men and women who for some reason have just not had that experience. 

Here are my reasons as to why these people have not had i:

1. Socially inactive:

This class of people have a very hard time meeting people and have a difficult time talking to strangers and other members of the public. For those people have a problem starting a conversation, I would recommend them reading one of my articles on starting up conversation  listed here: http://socyberty.com/social-sciences/understanding-how-to-talk-to-strangers-especially-women/  and here: http://socyberty.com/relationships/how-to-find-love-2/. For the men, I would also suggest going to this link: http://socyberty.com/advice/understanding-how-attraction-works-with-women/

2. Child hood fear:

Some people have had massive childhood trauma, that have stopped them from meeting people and connecting with people from different genders. I would suggest taking therapy or doing some self study of themselves. It may take a while but it would help a lot.

3. Repetitive Rejections:

Now I don’t completely agree on the fact that people have had rejections from the opposite gender or same gender over the course of their lives. In stead I think they just didn’t take the time to meet more people. These are the people who have given up the hope of losing their virginity after failing to make impressions with a bunch of 5 or 10 people. These people need to make an effort to go out and make friends with everyone around them . Especially go out to social gatherings where people want to be talking to each other. This is definitely the best ways get over their fears and start casual conversation with people and this way amazing stories are build up.

I have listed 3 of the different types of people and the dilemmas they face and some solutions to cope up with the stress. In my future  blogs, I will concentrate on more areas of the problems faced so stay tuned.