Porn is Not Your Enemy

OK, people, listen up and learn something.  It’s time for us ladies to accept something that a lot of us hate to admit, and that is, PORN IS HERE TO STAY.  And trust me, I’m not just saying this because I’m an ebony porn vixen or sex work advocate either, I’m saying this because I realize a males need for sexual stimulation.

Now a lot of us hold the assumption that if I were a good enough lover, he wouldn’t need porn.  But believe me when I say this; Porn is NOT and never will be your enemy.  How can you be so sure you may ask?  Easy, porn has no emotions so it can’t kiss, have sex, hold, or talk to you.

I have never heard of a guy leaving his wife or girlfriend for the box of Jenna Jameson DVD’s under his bed. 

It’s sad that this stigma still lingers because it just proves that a lot of females are still insecure when it comes to sex and sexuality.  Instead of moping and whining about your man’s porn movies, why don’t you try to spice things up a bit for him?  If he likes watching porn, then suggest that the both of you make your own porn video, with scripts and all.  Then watch it together after dinner has been made and the kids are put to bed.

Get rid of all your small minded ideas about how he should be stimulating himself. Sex is not supposed to have a bunch of rules and regulations attached to them, especially if he’s the only participant in his sex act.  Because trust me, once he starts looking on craigslist for hookers and hook-up’s, you’ve lost the battle!

Madame Erotique