Pre Teen Sex Marriage Phenomenon

Sexual Behavior is behavior that involves physically touch the limbs of men and women who have reached the stage of an intimate relationship, which is usually performed by married couples. While premarital sexual behavior is sexual behavior carried out without due process of a formal marriage by law or religion and belief of each individual. 

Premarital sexual behavior is indeed visible, but it did not happen by itself but rather is driven or motivated by internal factors that can not be observed directly (not visible). Thus the individual is moved to do premarital sex behavior. 

Motivation is the driving behavior. The relationship between these two constructs are quite complex, among others, can be seen as follows: The same motivation can be a different drive behavior, as well as the same behavior can be guided by different motivations. Certain motivations will encourage someone to do a particular behavior as well. On an adolescent premarital sexual behavior may be motivated by a sense of affection and love to be dominated by feelings of closeness and high passion to the spouse, without a clear commitment (in this case Sternberg called romantic love), or because of the group (conformity), where teens want to be part of the group by following the norms that have been adopted by his group, in this group had done premarital sex behavior. 

Another factor that may affect an adolescent premarital sex because it is driven by a great curiosity to try everything that is not yet known. These are the traits of adolescents in general, they want to know many things that can only be satisfied and accomplishment through their own experience, “Learning by doing”. 

This is where the problems often arise in the lives of teenagers because they wanted to try everything, including that related to the function which also involves partner ketubuhannya. But behind it all, the internal factors that most influence adolescent sexual behavior that leads to premarital sexual behavior in adolescents is the development of sexual organs. It is said that the gonads (sexual glands) are still working (primary sex) not only affects the consummation of the body (especially in relation to secondary sex characteristics), but also affects much on the mental life, moral, and social. 

In the psychic life of adolescents, the development of sexual organs have a powerful influence in the interest of teenagers of the opposite sex. Ketertarikkan between the opposite sex is then developed into a more serious pattern of dating and choosing a mate dating and romance that will be set as a life partner. While the moral life, hand in hand with the workings of gonads, conflicts often arise in adolescence. The problem that arises is a result of sex drive and often times conflicting moral considerations.