Safe Sex, What is It?

Once I wrote, “Sex is not everything but without sex, everyhing is nothing.” Right? Sex is really an forgettable experience. You forget doing it easily, therefore you want to do it more and more with different positions and possibly with diffrent partners. A man or woman is willing  spend thousands of dollars to restore his or her declining sexual performance. That is how sex therapists, doctors, and the like earn their living.

So much do we love sex that sometimes we are victimized by sex products, be they pills, herbes, toys and many more. Let us now focus on the concepts of safe sex based on religious, social and health perspectives.

Religious Perspective

Any religion on earth commonly has the same perspective on sex. As far as you are married, you and your spouse are free to have sex. It is safe any where and any time. In Islam for example, sex is the ultimate goal in a family. It is something God favors. It is next to wealth that a man should give his wife. A wife may ask for a divorce if her husband cannot perform sex. Likewise, thousands of angels will curse a woman who refuses to have sex with her husband without due causes, such as suffering a certain disease, having menstrual period. However, you have to remember that human is not without limit, and sex is of no exeption. Therefore you have to do it wisely, like eating or drinking. Eat when you are hungry and do not eat too much.

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Social Perspective

Sosically speaking, sex is safe when you perform it with your own partner (legal or illegal). You have to make sure that your partner is not emotionally and romantically related to another individual. In other words, he or she is not someone else’s boy or girlfriend, and not someone else’s husband or wife. Having sex with anyone belonging to anyone else, if found, will sooner or later ruin your social reputation. You know how many important figures, such as politicians, artists and other public figures who ruin themselves due to socially irresponsible sexual encounters.

Health Perspective 

Sex can kill you if you ignore its health perspective. There are many kinds of sexually related diseases of which contracting HIV which can lead to AIDS is the most frightening one. Actually, health perspective of sex is closely related to the other two perspectives I have outlined above. However, consider the following tips.

• Be loyal to your partner (legal or illegal). That is to say, you had better have sex with the same partner, and so had your partner.
• Use a safe condom to prevent unwanted or delayed pregnency.
• Take herbal medication to enhance your sex performance.
• Make sure you know the benefits of having sex with respect to health.
• If you have a sexual problem, see a professional sex therapist for treatment. Don’t experiment yourself.
• Do not get addicted to sex.
• Learn more about safe sex.
• Learn more tips on sexual pleasure (Indian Flavors)