Secrets of Sexcess

Sex is so much more than what occurs between the sheets. At its best, sex is a mind-blowing, multi-sensory experience that-if you do it right-leaves you deeply relaxed, blissfully exhausted and intimately connected with your lover.

Once you learn the secrets of sexcess, you will enjoy a lifetime of immensely pleasurable sexual experiences beyond your wildest dreams, and you and your lover will be thanking me for years to come.

Planning for Sex

Great sex requires careful planning. What are you going to wear? What sexual activities are you going to engage in? Where will you make love?

Decide in advance what you plan to do and when you plan to do it. Mark the date on your calendar. Write down the time in your appointment book. Decide what you plan to wear?

Are you going out for the evening? If so, you’ll want to arrange your boudoir in advance. If you will be staying in, you’ll want to plan a menu, set the scene and make any other necessary preparations.

Preparing for Sex

You will need to be relaxed, revitalized and rejuvenated before you embark upon your sexual adventure.

Do some stretches. If you like, do a few yoga poses. Go for a brisk 20 minute walk. Now that you’ve built up your stamina, you’re ready for a little rest and relaxation.

Take a long, warm bath. Pat yourself dry with a luxuriously absorbent towel. Use your dental rinse. Brush and floss your teeth. Gargle with mouthwash. Put on your deodorant. Massage soothing, sensual aromatic oil onto your skin. Dab on a bit of perfume.

Slip into a thick, fluffy bathrobe and comfy slippers. Put on your makeup. Style your hair. Give yourself a manicure and a pedicure. Put on some pretty polish.

Layout your clothing, including the lingerie you’ll be wearing (at least briefly) later in the evening. Put special sheets on the bed. Setup lighting, floral arrangements and any props you will need.

Put your birth control and STD prevention equipment within easy reach of your love nest.

Turn on some music. Glance over your menu. Perform whatever food preparation tasks you need to.

When it’s time, put on your sexy lingerie. Get dressed. Give yourself a final once over in the mirror.

Now you’re ready to greet your lover.

Do Your Research

In order to drive your man to ecstasy, you need to find out exactly what makes his manhood stand up and say “Hello there.” To do this you will have to engage in what will probably be the most fun research project you’ve ever undertaken in your entire life.