Sensational Sex in Absolute Essentials
by You see, John was a top footballer who had enjoyed a meteoric rise to fame and had been used to success in all areas of his life. One reflection of this success had been the prolific number of young women who had offered him their favours. John was used to having his choice of beautiful women at any time he wanted (that is, so long as his training schedule and coach allowed.) John had always relied on his body to perform for his own pleasure. He didn’t much care about his partner’s pleasure but he usually found they went away with smiles on their faces.
“What’s gone wrong? Why isn’t it working? She’s gorgeous, I’m truly in love for the first time in my life and my sex life is non-existent?”
John’s speech was chaotic. He couldn’t believe that he was pouring out his troubles to a psychologist/sex-therapist – especially in having to admit that he was having great difficulties with his sexual performance.
You see, John was a top footballer who had enjoyed a meteoric rise to fame and had been used to success in all areas of his life. One reflection of this success had been the prolific number of young women who had offered him their favours. John was used to having his choice of beautiful women at any time he wanted (that is, so long as his training schedule and coach allowed.) John had always relied on his body to perform for his own pleasure. He didn’t much care about his partner’s pleasure but he usually found they went away with smiles on their faces.
Now John had finally fallen in love with Marnie, a beautiful golden haired model. Marnie had also had the life of the famous but she had chosen to be very careful with hersexuality. She had slept with only two men, neither of whom were fabulous studs but they had both made her feel good about her ability in bed. Now that she was in love with John, Marnie wanted to really be able to let go in sex and explore the heights that she had been reading about for all these years.
The reality was that sex with John was very disappointing. As a result, Marnie was starting to lose her self-esteem because she felt that it must be her fault that John was not able to demonstrate his love for her in bed.
Both John and Marnie needed some urgent sexual education and counselling in order to turn their sexual connection into something positive. (If you experience hiccups with sex with a new partner and you wait until the disappointment turns to indifference, then the relationship is doomed.)
John needed to understand that he was suffering from a phenomenon which can be termed “The Goddess Syndrome”. This is when a man who has taken sex for granted with women who does not love is finally faced with the true love of his life. To him, she is the Goddess incarnate. He loves every part of her being and wants only to cherish and adore her. It’s as if his sexuality shuts down in order for him to love the Goddess. His unconscious mind takes over and tells the penis to stay soft. After all, how could he do the sexual deed in the same way with her as he has done for all those years with the other women that he really didn’t care about?
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