Sex: Sensual or Otherwise?

Sometimes due to the intense heat and height of passion, the couple doesn’t even make sounds at all. Just a faint soft moan and their rugged breathing are all they are aware of. The sound of their heart beats is described to be more intelligible than the sound of their voices. It is the pleasure of feeling one’s body, the sheer excitement of two bodies moving in one synchronized rhythm. It is the awareness of one’s desire to take and give love with such passion and intensity. The burning desire to feel loved wanted and needed. The hunger to be one in spirit and soul to the one you are making love with. This often gives satisfaction to both couple in both physical and emotional state.

Hardcore on the other hand, is what I say, less passionate. We see it in pornographic films. It is done with less gentleness, less or sometimes no love at all. Hardcore is just making out without making love. More often, if not always, the couples are more focus on the sound they are making. They even elaborate it by saying nasty words to add excitement to the act. Some thought that the more noise their partner is making while making out, the more he/she is stimulated. However, others are making loud noise to hide fake orgasm.

The loud noise can even hinder deriving pleasure from the act. Let’s face it, not all of us are gifted with that sexy bedroom voice. The moaning which is supposed to stimulate can sound like a squeal of an ear piercing voice which is a sure turn off. Sometimes talking while having sex is irritating and is not stimulating at all because the attention is diverted into the conversation rather than the sensation of the pleasure.

Making out is just with an intention of getting laid and to satisfy a raging hormone. To satiate the biological need by unleashing one’s libido and getting on with it with no foreplay at times or no gentle loving. Just hard and forceful body movement, then, gone with it before you knew it. This act can end up to disappointment to one of the couples.

The body may respond differently as the mind is stimulated differently. Since this kind of sex ignores the different spots that give pleasure to either the man or the woman, its main focus is the intercourse. One partner may have orgasm earlier than the other depending on how sexually stimulated that person is.

Still, in my own opinion, sex is best enjoyed if there’s an emotional attachment somehow. Even if it is the end product of being thrilled and getting excited to an opposite sex, doing it with both respect to your partner’s body and your body is different.

Again, neither malice nor pun is intended here. This is my opinion and yours might be different.