Sex Seriously

Good compatibility and understanding is very important in any relationship, both mentally and physically.Sex between the partners also requires the same.Many couples get split due to non compatibility and not being able to understand the partner’s different needs in sex.Every one of us have different sexual needs and preferences, when we enter into a relationship, we should have an open mind and concern ourselves with our partner’s needs rather than just focusing on how to get pleasure from him/her without giving any attention on our partner.If someone doesn’t care about the partner then the relationship doesn’t last much long.

Though it cannot the needs of women and men cannot be generalised, there are basically two kinds of people sexually speaking.One is Dominant kind and the other is Submissive kind.Another in – between type could be mixture of both who enjoys being both which is considered best.Generally, it is believed that men are mostly dominating kind and like their women to be submissive and women are submissive and like their men to dominate them in sex if not in other areas.But its not true as many men are found to be desiring a dominating woman and the same could be said about many women who like their men to be submissive in bed.Some are more into experimenting and enjoy to be both dominating and submissive during sex to bring some variation in their sex life.

It is very important to know your partner sexually before doing anything which you might feel is perfect but may be your partner doesn’t like it at all.And to know one has to have open minded detailed communication together instead of rushing things taking your partner for granted.Both should be willing to understand and compromise if required to save the relationship.Ego comes in way when there is clear need to agree on compromising on things sometimes, ego has no place in relationship, even in sex.

Many men and women tend to be too cautious and keep asking before making any move, this can irritate the other person and spoil the mood.It’s better to just go with the flow and be relaxed, if the partner doesn’t like the move he/she will tell you and both can find other moves which are suitable for both.

Many men see their women as sex objects and think they can have them the way they like to, though there are women who like to be treated like rag dolls but not always.Doing sex in one particular way can become monotonous for the other.Some women just lay there like dead meat and expect men to enjoy which doesn’t work always.Man like to see that his woman is enjoying sex with him, if she shows no reaction then it makes him feel down and the act is spoiled.

Don’t do it as something you are suppose to do.Enjoy it to the fullest with your partner, if something is missing which you would like to bring in to it, just talk to your partner, be open minded to experiment rather than sticking to your preferences only, if you have problems with having to think of others need then you should get a doll which won’t have his/her own mind and would continue to give the pleasures you desire for in sex and see how long you enjoy it, you will surely be dead bored in few days.

Enjoy.

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