Sex Talk: An Open Forum
by An open forum series dedicated to talking about sex.
This is the first article in a potential series dedicated to talking about sex. We have all done it, we all enjoy it, but sometimes we are forced to suppress talking about it because over the decades the message has always been that sex is a private thing and everyone needs to be “hush hush” about it, but I beg to differ. I will agree that there are moments in life where talking about sex is inappropriate and that there are certain people out there that find sex and everything associated with it offensive, but still, all in all, I believe most people find sex to be a very important part of their life…it’s part of being human.
This series is intended to help those of you who may want to talk openly about sex but are reluctant to do so, providing you with insight as to how to improve the quality of your sex life. It’s intended to remove those tendencies to blush or giggle at the mention of something sexual. We all have thoughts, desires, and fantasies, not to mention an abundance of questions that may never be asked just because you might feel it’s embarrassing to ask. Sometimes you might feel you can’t ask someone close to you because then they might form a different opinion of you, in which case some nagging question keeps eating away at you.
You might not feel comfortable with your body or you may feel others are judging or comparing your body with others making you feel self-conscious or uneasy about getting naked, thus limiting your ability to have a fulfilling and exciting sex life.
I don’t have all the answers, but I will admit that I believe myself to be a self-appointed sexpert…only because it’s something important to me that I enjoy and I take a strong interest in, believing that there is always room for improvement. But then again, that’s why I’m starting this series. I’m looking for readers to add comments and add their own experiences so that possibly it can help others enhance their sexual experience. I’m sure everyone has something they can contribute…so don’t be shy. This is a forum to help one another and any judgmental or negative comments will be deleted immediately.
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Post CommentLinda Lori
On October 13, 2009 at 2:06 pm
What a great article James! I would love to put my two cents in! I’ve never experienced a threesome but I think definitely one more reason why it is a fantasy for men (and also for women…of course with two men) is the anticipation of getting twice the amount of physical attention than a one-on-one situation would provide. I am looking forward to others’ responses on this topic!
lillyrose
On October 16, 2009 at 2:57 pm
Well said, I love talking, writing, doing, sex. I started off as an erotic writer but it is so hard to find some where to publish those stories.
Darla Cooke
On October 23, 2009 at 1:27 pm
I took part in a threesome while I was in my 20’s. It was with my boyfriend at the time and his best friend. It was a very interesting experience and if I had the chance I would do it again.
Valerie Curtiss
On October 23, 2009 at 6:54 pm
Been there, done that, with a very young married couple – in my teenage years – ’nuff said!
Renee Hendricks
On October 23, 2009 at 11:08 pm
Well, a threesome would have to be one of the tamer things I’ve participated in. I’ve been fortunate enough to have experienced this a few times and found the experience to be just as thrilling with two men or another man and a woman.
For me, it was important that all of us were close friends – not random strangers. It made the experience feel like an extension of our friendship. A way to express how we felt about each other without using any words.
I do plan on experiencing it again as often as I’m able as it’s an experience that is almost indescribable.