Sexual Intercourse: Sexual Knowledge Needed by Playmates

                                                                                 By Ndungu Mungai

It is interesting, isn’t it?

There is too much sex in the air!

Both the print and electronic media are rife with blatant depictions of sex as well as overt lyrics and talks of things sexual. Its indeed as if our life is controlled by nothing else but sex. Sex is what is fed to our minds all day long and day in and day out. The act is fundamentally good but we are told that you have to be constantly at it with multiple sexual players if you want to have any happiness in your life.

Consequently, in our midst are men who within a relatively short period in their life will rival the late American basketball player Wilt Chamberlain who at one time claimed to have slept with over “20 000 women” throughout his life on earth spanning nearly six decades. To these sexual maniacs ancient King Solomon of Israel may seem a greenhorn in matters sexual even with a crowd of 700 wives and 300 concubines.

Also in our ranks are women who have slept with “multitudes of men” since they became sexually active, probably at age 13 or even earlier. Chamberlain may have “fucked everything that walked” on its two feet – according to a Swedish female friend who knew him well. But our modern women too have been fucked by “anything resembling a human male.”

Ours is definitely a sex oriented world -  with a glowing number of people indulging in anonymous sex, impulsive sex, careless sex, daring sex, irresponsible sex, self-centered sex and harm-producing sex. Premarital and extramarital affairs are in vogue while rape, homosexual relationships and group sex are increasing being encouraged and condoned in many parts of the world.

The truth of the matter though is that individuals entering into a marital relationship for the rest of their lives seem to lack the knowledge of the kind of sexual relations that can satisfy their partners and produce the best sexual experience  for them as well. As years go by most couples will have forgotten the thing that made sex an extremely exciting and gratifying experience in their earlier days of courtship. Sexy lingerie and foreplay are now things of the past. And so is “walks” and “talks” and “watching” sex movies together.