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Sexual Satisfaction

What makes people sexually satisfied?

Sexual Satisfaction to most people means that a person is satisfied with the sex act. Sexual Satisfaction has many meanings to many people. Yes it can be to be satisfied with the sex act but other people it has a different meaning.

For instance, the definition of sex from the dictionary is defined as the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another. What this means is that there is something that draws men and women together; an attraction to their opposite sex. When someone is cheating on their spouse; their immediate question is “Did you sleep with the person?” but would it make a difference if their response were “No, but we kissed and fondled each other”? No! You see because the act of sex doesn’t stop at sexual intercourse.

The act of sex consists of many other things like foreplay, kissing, caressing, foot playing, fantasy, fetishes, voyeurism etc. It depends on the individual and what satisfy them within the sex arena. I for one love hand and finger play. I love the act of touching one another with our hands and fingers. This is very arousing and stimulating bringing both me and the other person to a point of no return.

The other thing that brings sexual satisfaction to me is the act of voyeurism. I love to watch and be watched. Not like a theater like setting. But maybe picking out a location where I know people will pass by and sneak a peek or leave the shades open in the bedroom. Just the idea that someone may be watching our lovemaking is very exciting to me.

These various forms of sexual acts are very sexually satisfying to me. It is important that you speak to your partner about what is sexually satisfying to you.

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  1. mdegenhardt

    On September 5, 2008 at 6:42 am


    It is important to be satisfied otherwise it’s just an act. Satisfaction does not come with the act itself as you infer, but through the stimulus and the emotion. It is not only brought out by the received but the given. It’s important to talk about this just like you said with your partner, so both parties can experience each other fully. Great advice you offer to the readers, so perfectly conveyed.

  2. Love Lace

    On September 6, 2008 at 3:07 pm


    mdegenhardt – Thank you for your words of inspiration.

  3. Milton H Peebles III

    On February 21, 2009 at 10:19 pm


    like your view on this

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