Sexuality: The Importance of Comparing Pairs

Draw a circle that represents our cake of sexuality, then hand write all the gestures, thoughts, words and actions that could represent for us a good cake. Words of love, sexual words, gestures and choices of where to be touched, how we feel pleasure in the stimulation of the clitoris, atmospheres, situations that we consider facilitating sexuality, fantasies that we think are linked to our feelings or giving pleasure.

The cake of sexuality is a game to play with your partner because it allows us to know clearly and quickly because sometimes or often do not understand how it could be to remedy the difficulties we encounter in pleasure and orgasm. The partner as you can ascertain what you can feel good and what hinders sexuality. Another exercise profit that makes it easy to take a silhouette of male and female human body and play with your partner in the design of pleasure. First, individually, using three colors, red, blue and yellow describe areas of the body that give you pleasure (red), discomfort or pain (blue), hypersensitivity (yellow) during the sexual encounter. The discomfort or pain may be indicated by increasing color intensity, the annoyance is definitely harmful, but less important than the pain.This exerciseWhich then should lead to a comparison of torque, can afford to give away important information in relation to sexuality and to provide more expertise and problem-solving out of the ground where you have sex on the scale of a game of knowledge is very important to renew sexuality or to make it grow from a point of pleasure and the elimination of the malaise. These games should be enjoyed in their way of testing affectionate, never turn into accusations or allegations as “See you do not know anything about me,” or “If you were closer you’d know it. Now that you know what I did I’m glad seeks to adjust “All these sentences would only worsen the outcome of sexuality.If the design of the body appears clearly that does not derive pleasure from stimulation of the genital area, clitoris or vagina may reveal our lack of orgasm. If we pretend to try and this has given peace to the partner are not doing this game of “zones of pleasure”, but using the cake of sexuality that is more likely to have dimension of play, we will present such as environment, words and gestures make us work, we ourselves become active in creating the right situation.Being active does not mean control or criticize, on the contrary it means preparing our minds and our actions to be appropriate for the pleasure, in the consultation room of the clinic talk about games and magic circle what they want to say these words? We must be aware that today, less and less sex has a simple basic instinct and that was very evident in a given female sexuality. To want to have sex more often men and women need to start up the head, imagination and the competence of the body.The playroom is a symbolic picture that recalls the competence of the children in fun and pleasure. And This is an image that would be nice to have when we are about to make love, otherwise it is right that we want and we are trying to avoid a negative situation. The magic circle tells a space built as a place to meet full of emotions, positive content, affection, intimacy, commitment, within a protected area, built in the absence of stress and tasks of the day. Both of these images draw attention to the situations before and build the sexual encounter so it is nice to have sex.The games, thoughtsThe building, mutual understanding, are ways to protect and maintain the sexuality in our relationship, knowing that it is a necessary element because the ratios are preserved in the dimension of wellness.