I guess you can call me an advocate or activist for sex workers rights being that I too am in the sex worker industry.  It’s amazing how your outlook of a particular industry is completely changed once you take part in it.  I guess this is true for men also; once they’ve paid an escort or Dominatrix for services, he becomes part of our world from an inside prospective.  He no longer looks at Escorting and Domination with the eyes of the Media and the mass negative perception that the Media puts fourth to the public.

I guess this is why I tip Strippers well when ever I go to strip clubs because I understand their Hustle.  I understand that there is more to an exotic dancer than the pole, g-strings, and platform shoes.  Once those sexy dimmed lights are turned off, and the dancer is fully clothed, you have a regular woman standing before you with bills, kids, boyfriends, and a regular life to maintain.  Some people on the outside have this image of Adult Entertaining as being a 24 hour job, as if it’s impossible for the Entertainer to turn it off.

80% of Adult Entertainers are just regular people.  Now I say only 80% because there are some entertainers out there that are a real mess, but they honestly don’t make up the majority.

When you’re on the inside, it’s easy for you to see the humanity in a street-walker or even a pimp for that matter because you know their hustle, and everything they have to put up with to make a buck.  I recently heard a Podcast of a well known street pimp talking about the trials and tribulations of managing a bunch of street-walkers, and I TOTALLY understand him.  I know what it’s like trying to manage a bunch of hard-headed, know it all females with no home training, and to the outside world she’s a victim, when in actuality she victimizes herself.  Now, I’m not speaking of human Trafficking and sex slaves…. that’s horrible; I’m speaking of the willing participants in this game, the ones who are seemingly normal, yet will do the complete opposite of what she should be doing. 

With the right guidance and a good head on her shoulder, an Adult Entertainer can make a lot of money and live a fabulous life.  I should know, because I’m one of them, and my life is pretty damn fabulous!