Strategies for Great Sex

Tease, Flirt, Tease, Flirt and Do It Again

The best way to want to experience something is to anticipate it. Let your partner know how exactly you are sexually attracted to them and what exactly it makes you want to do with them. Let the sexual tension soar and soar before you are even onto each other. It could be hours before or days even but tease, flirt, tease, flirt, and do it again.

Work on Emotions

Usually men want sex because it makes them feel good. Usually women want sex only when they are feeling good. Gentlemen, if you really want your woman to rave her engine for you, make her feel good all over. This has to start before you are onto each other. Work on getting that emotional connection way before the organs connection. Compliment her on her good points, be nice to her, make sure nothing is bothering her because it could ruin the moment. Make her feel, valued, needed, appreciated and wanted.

Get Naked

The way we view our bodies has a direct bearing on our enjoyment of the whole sex experience. The rule of thumb is: the more comfortable you are being naked and vulnerable in the presence of your lover, the greater the chances of having a strong sexual connection. Not only do you need to throw away most of your inhibitions to fully enjoy sex, but you also need a lover who makes you feel good about your body.

When two lovers are comfortable about being vulnerable and sexual towards each other, the better the foreplay. Do not shy away from exploring each other’s bodies. Be very open to each other and spend lots of time touching each other, caressing and kissing all over. Varying the tempo. If your partner wants to perform oral sex on you, let them do it. First time around you may find it embarrassing but if done rightly, it will add an incredible dimension to your sex life and arousal levels.

Variety Is the Spice of Life

 If you want your partner to never be bored of having sex with you, try different ways of initiating the sex process. Do not do the same routines over and over again. Unpredictability does raise your arousal level because each new thing is unexpected and fresh. Experiment with different techniques and sex positions. Have fun. Couples who are sexually adventurous stay together longer.

Safe Sex is Great Sex

Believe me, the last thing you want to be thinking about when having sex with your partner is whether you are putting your health at risk. Personally, I have never been comfortable being sexual with somebody I’ve just recently got to know. Another thing, if you are feeling guilty about sleeping with somebody for whatever the reason, then don’t do it. It will always haunt you.