Talking Frankly About “Using It or Losing It”

Talking Frankly About  “Using It or Losing It”

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As we age our body’s change, and for some their sexual desire decrease, whether it is physical, or emotional and the longer you go without having sex, slowly the desires diminish. Today life is so different from when our parent were aging some thought after a certain age sex was unacceptable, while others still maintained a healthy sex life.

The line use it or lose it baby, is a fact, for men erections bring need oxygen to their penis, keeping the sensitivity; nerve ending alive. It is there nerve ending that become aroused and this is the reason why they have erections, over time the longer men go without having sex, the muscle weaken, the sensitivity is gone and this leads to erectile dysfunction.

Woman too, need and “yes” enjoy having sex, even in there fifties and sixties, it helps to keep the pelvic muscle strong, while helping to stimulating the vaginal muscles, and keeps the vaginal wall lubricated which is a problem for many women during menopause.

Over weeks, months or maybe years, a couple who have decided to stay away from sex because of psychological reasons, depression, or feelings of being unattractive; subconsciously have “shut off” their sexual drive switch. The longer time lapses between sexual activity the higher the chances are to fine the on switch again, since even having sex once a week can in time increase your desire for move loving!