Tantric Sex: A Beginners Guide

This article is an introduction to Tantric sex. It basically describes the practice, and instructs the couple on a beginner approach. This is a very deep and intimate practice used to build a strong spiritual bond between two lovers. I will continue on the topic with further articles discussing other factors and practices.

 What is this??

Tantric sex is the spiritual connection and intimacy between two partners. Through this practice you can direct all your natural energy to the points of your partner where they can  benefit the most .We can also develop a soul level connection, by tapping into these sexual energies from our partners. . These connections create an unimaginable bond of love and dedication that is unbreakable. Learning and practicing these techniques are the key to  perfecting the practice, and building a sexual experience only fantasized about.

How to get Connected

1. Eye contact is key for the first step. Lock your eyes into each others during sex. This is the initial connection. To keep the bond strong, do not break eye contact, during the entire act. Keep your eyes connected so as to see every fine line, every strand.

2. While sitting face to face, hug your partner, wrapping your arms around them tightly. Skin contact helps generate the feelings of intimacy, so get close to each other to make sure as much as your body can be consumed by your partners.

3. Breath in a fluid motion, while your partner inhales, you exhale. You continue this pattern vice-versa, allowing the exchange of necessary energy. Which helps to set the foundation of the connection, and the feeling of being connected.

4. Take it slow. Slow movements are far more sensual and erotic than thrusting rapidly, and it creates a gradual buildup of pleasure. The more you build up the ecstasy, nice and slow, the more intense it will be when you both reach orgasm.

5.While this is all happening, feel your partners body…message and make contact with your partners body, legs, hair, arms, shoulders. Allow them to feel your skin all over their body.

6. These practices should be done ideally 3-5 times a week minimum. Practice makes perfect. The deeper the sense of intimacy you create between you, the faster you will connect and grow into each other…and the deeper the bond between you will become

7. It is important to keep the room at a suitable temperature. The body heat that generates from being so close to one another, and the touching and rubbing can make you overheat. Its nice to keep a cool bowl of water close by. Fans or an air conditioner may be another method to set the temperature at a comfortable place. This practice really gets you hot…literally!

One last note Id like to make is both you and your partner should be in good mental and physical health. The exercise can be practiced, but its always a good idea to talk with a doctor and make sure you do not have any health problems. Exercise is another great way to warm up the body before trying this method. Nothing like heavy lifting, but a good warm up jog to get the blood pumping, then a good shower! Prepare the body, as though it was a ritual…because it basically is!

Good luck, have fun, be safe!

Next time a more in depth look at the history of Tantra and Tantric Sex