The Complete Flirt

FLIRTING is an empowering game between adults. Most people want to be seduced. Sometimes the target resists the seducer because the are unsure of the motives of the flirter or of their depths of feeling. Here are a few ideas.

The flirter should do one well-timed bold action that shows how far they are prepared to go to win over their prey.

A common mistake in seduction is to be too sugary. Pleasure mixed with pain has always been a winning formula. Tension creates an erogenous atmosphere. Entrap your victim with your full attention, then veer away. This leaves the target feeling unsure. It is even possible to engineer a parting followed by a rapprochement. Always remember: the deeper the troughs, the higher the crests.

It is possible to disarm the prey by allowing them a glimpse of your softer side. Use this ploy sparingly, however has it can be seen as a cry for sympathy.

Isolated your quarry leaves vulnerable. It can be done psychologically by giving them your full and undivided attention or physically by blocking them from their normal range of friends. Both take the target out of their familiar environment and leaves the prey dependent on the seducer.

A clever seducer can use spiritual lures. These include religious experiences or even the occult. The main bait here is the promise of the pleasure that the target may receive from the seducer. A quick reminder: flirting is a mind game and nothing is more mind-blowing than spirituality.

Sometimes the prey becomes too used to the seduced and the tension that has been created is lessened. This is the time to show a little aloofness, sometimes do not show up. Eventually the target’s imagination will work overtime and their resistance will disappear. Just leave them enough space to fall into your arms.

There are physical lures. Tousled hair and dishevelled clothing suggest the bedroom far more than an immaculate appearance does. Your main weapons now will be your eyes, voice and a mysterious manner. Make your eyes speak of uncontrollable desire, even wantonness.

Now is the morning of victory. Throw away all modesty and attack the quarry with a bold move. Any hesitation now will give the target time to consider the consequences.

A main consideration in both love and seduction is vanity. The climax will lead to a lengthier courtship, which feeds the quarry’s vanity. It will make your final bold move all the more enchanting and overwhelming.

Read from your target’s body language what effect you are having on them. They maybe mirroring your movements or there may be a certain look in their eyes. Go for the kill. They prey now believes that their charms have overwhelmed you. They are now ready for the ultimate pleasure. They will experience a large psychological boost to their vanity at the thought of your alleged physical surrender.

Good Hunting.