The Fishes in The Sea: Who’s Biting The Bait? Girls are Sexual Creatures Too

Just because a girl looks innocent, doesn’t mean that she’s not “sexual” in any way. The common misconception amongst  guys about girls is: “She’s incapable of being horny”. Sure, she does. Men may have more testosterones, so they act like fishermen shyly swinging their bait. At least, that’s what many men assume: That they’re always the fishermen and the women are just fishes. If you’re one of those men, guess what? You’re fishing in the wrong pond. 

Sometimes, you have to look at the bigger picture and have a broader picture of this fishing game. Men could be “fishes” too. Many girls lure them into biting the bait -and that bait could refer to a lot of things, whether money, sex, status, or love; It could be good or bad. Men fall for it. The question is: Are those men aware of biting it? Are they aware that they’re trapped in the women’s net of dominion. In most cases, it’s a bad thing for the guy because “she’s in control”; but in pleasant moments, it’s a good thing for both sexes because sometimes, girls being “on top” feels good just like reverse cowgirl position. Know where you stand or swim, because as cute as we girls may look, we could be as cunning as some guys too.

The point is: girls are sexual creatures too, even though we don’t show it like guys do. We do have our own desires, fantasies, and other preferences when it comes to sex. Of course, it’s human nature that the majority of girls are more conservative than guys when it comes to sex, because we have a lot of crap we have to worry about that guys don’t have to suffer, such as pregnancy, menstruation, you get the point. But don’t be narrow-minded. Sometimes, you have to be the shark instead of just a fisherman.

Other articles by Cathy Aria: 

10 Wussy Moves That Men do

Understanding the Psychology of Introverts 1. Why Are They So Quiet, Reserved, and Analytical?

The Power of Self Respect