The Joy Of Tantric Sex

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Tantra arises from two ancient Sanskrit words meaning expansion and liberation.  It is a form of Buddhist and Hindi inculcation that views sex through expansion and spirituality.  In Tantra, you utilize each of the five senses to the farthest reach, and everything that gives you and your partner gratification is beneficial.   The theory is that by encompassing your full spirit in sexual joining without shame, gratification changes into elation and stimulates your entire spirit, producing splendor and invigoration.  Sexual energy has the power to transform your life, bring about joy and bestow courage and confidence.

Tantra is a complex, unified theory in which the man is instructed to  explore his feminine side and the woman to explore her masculine nature.  In Tantra, female pleasure and orgasm are crucial, but male orgasm should be put off so that elation can be drawn out.  The exploration is wholeness, and after onset, the exploration is concluded.  Men experience exhaustion after release, so Tantrists gain release without emission. 

Techniques:

There are several ways a man can make his erection subside and put off ejaculation:

*Stay fully motionless, relax the genital and anal muscles and press your tongue against the roof of your mouth just behind your teeth.

*Stay motionless and take full, normal breaths.

*Withdraw your penis a bit before ejaculation, then rotate nine shallow thrusts with one deeper one.

*Press the index finger and thumb on your perineum, midway between the anus and scrotum.  Either you or your partner can do this.

*Place the thumb on the frenulum, on the underside of the penis, with the index and middle fingers on the ridge of the glans penis on the upper side, , and squeeze for thirteen seconds.

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