The Top Ten Reasons Why Cybersex is Good for You

When I tell people who write about cybersex, I get a lot of strange reactions. I, for example, “Oh, my God, you’re a perverted secret” gesture, a turn sour, sanctimonious mouth. I am also familiar with the look of surprise and concern raised, eyebrows and dropped jaws and then the reaction is most curious of all “In reality, sex on the Internet?”. Head almost sympathetic understanding nod, saying: “.. must be hard, but good for you, after all, someone had to discover this den of perversion in line”

Rarely people, including sex cybersex respond positively positive. Why? When both are consenting adults having sex online, why do we think it is “wrong”? Of course, we can blame the media that feeds anti-cybersex sensationalism (To Catch a Predator, with its line-up of pedophiles prowling the Internet come to mind). But the truth is that they love sex and really love technology. Why can not love both?

I was surprised to receive a recent email from a reader Click asked: “Are there any benefits to cybersex?” Like, seriously? Maybe I was not very clear: of course there are benefits for cybersex! Cybersex, like real life sex, can be a wonderful thing full of fun, skills, and sexual expression. Here are ten reasons why you, yes you, the blood red, not perverted American citizen should be free to do now.

1. Safety: Despite rumors of tabloid Internet predators, cybersex is much safer than sex in real life. Do not give personal information to strangers, of course, and you will find all you care about is what turns you on, no STDs, unwanted pregnancies, even how to find a babysitter. As a single mother, said: “Why endanger my children by adding their sexual partners, if I can get in bed and play online in the next room?”

2. The simple practice of sex: Cybersex does not require an empty house, a hotel room or even a bed. More importantly, it requires tactics over the face of attraction. Whether you are looking for a quick romp before going to work hard to find if you live alone or late at night, at the request of orgasm, the Internet and its wealth of cybersex enthusiasts is always waiting and ready.

3. Practice sex couples: He lives in California. She spent three weeks visiting his family in the Philippines. How this couple to manage their time off? Having regular sex webcam, of course! Being long distance does not mean you have to be sexually frustrated. In fact, it may be a good time to explore new facets of sexy-a relationship with the help of technology.