The Want and Need for Sex

But what is real obviously is the urge for sex but even more that we all get into sex and for the majority of us we all do it. But we like to hide it from parents, friends, even our own partner and mostly strangers. Because as soon as the subject of sex comes up especially in public names start getting used even when they don’t fit because when its not a fake movie or whatever and real we take it as a sin except what it can give us or what it might not.

So in order to not get in trouble or looked bad upon we hide that we have sex and have the urge to want to. And because of this only ourselves keep us from having sex. And all of us secretly wait for the other partner to make the first move for sex so they themselves might not look bad or at least so bad. But if both are waiting or more often wanting the other person to make the first move how will that allow ourselves to give us what we want and fill the urges we have, that sex drive that’s not going to just go away unless from some kind of rare medical disease.

And us denying our needs and wants is what drives us to have sex with others and there for spreading diseases and causing divorces and just overall breaking peoples hearts because it tends to influence people to want to go else where then their partner hoping to keep it in secrete and not have to worry about making the first move or the wrong one. Sex does not do all this. Nether does the urge. The only thing that does is we denying our needs and wants and then making bad decisions.

Should we be denying ourselves of sex? We all can try to deny our interests in sex but we all know we have them so why try. Talking about it and I don’t mean sex of actors and other people but each one of us and our partner is who we need to be telling our sexual interests or non interests for that matter it will really help keep the fire in relationships so to speak.