The Web, The Place for Free Sex!
by With so many of us having such great access to the Internet, is it causing problems in our relationships?
Is infidelity on the rise?
We can virtually ‘log on’ from anywhere now days and not just from a computer. With the ever increasing technology at our finger tips in the shape of the iphone that has its own wifi, ipod touch with Internet access and many more mobile phones having Internet is it just so much easier for people to cheat on their other half?
The sales in spy ware and Net Detectors is rising, is this just pure chance or is there a climbing market for finding out the truth about your partner.
Men and women can find sex anywhere on the Internet, chat rooms, or any of the social networking sites, there are people looking, leading you into a false sense of security and there is so much free porn, now it is not just keeping the credit card bill a secret anymore and with adverts of ‘girls waiting to have sex with you in your area’ its just there for the taking. There are even dating sites for married people who want to have discreet fun.
There are sites like these plastered all over the web.
1. Marital Affair Dating
2. Play Naughty
3. SeekBang.com
4. BeNaughty.com
5. Sexmeup.co.uk
6. SMS-Contacts.co.uk
7. My-Fbuddy.co.uk
8. UKquickies.com
9. IllisitEncounters.com
10. Flingfinder.com.uk
Some of these sites are running scams and you will get caught and loose money along
the way or maybe you want to get caught?
If things are not going well in a relationship and you still love your partner and want things to work, don’t turn to the pleasures of the Internet to gratify yourself, sit down and talk.
Some other measures that will help you with your addiction and help you stop cheating with porn or chat rooms or worse.
1. Admit you have a problem and that your Internet type of use is causing problems in your relationship.
2. Only go on the Internet with a clear purpose of buying something, research or checking your mail.
3. Don’t go on when you are alone, board or have had an argument with your partner
4. Don’t use any instant messaging or chat programs and change your email address.
5. Let your partner put on spy software, If you don’t want to do this then maybe you need to seriously think about what you do want to do.
6. Remember that whatever your partner is feeling about you, it is your turn to reassure them that you have stopped any infidelity.
7. Spend more time with your partner, friends and family.
8. Keep your computer in a public area of the house and no more lies to cover up what you have been doing by using the privacy button.
9. Leave off buying new gadgetry with Internet access until you can honestly trust yourself not to fall back into your old habits.
10. Remember those little moments of pleasure are not worth risking what you have with your partner. If you think they are, then maybe you should reconsider being in that relationship at all.
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Post CommentFrances Lawrence
On November 9, 2009 at 9:29 am
These things can get out of hand, but they are not real and they are not worth losing a marriage for.
Papa Sparks
On November 9, 2009 at 10:00 am
A very good essay and people should heed your warning. I wish my younger brother could have read something like this a few years ago. He got addicted to these sites and it cost him a marriage and one very big settlement. It was all harmless in that it was only on the Internet but it was stupid on his part and it cost him.
Then there is all the spyware that these sites have that can also mess things up for you.
lillyrose
On November 9, 2009 at 10:16 am
Yes it can mess up big time. A friend of mine Dated a woman from a social network site because his wife was dating some men from another one… tit for tat can only end badly surly.
redmail99
On November 9, 2009 at 10:17 am
I nice recommendations, i found your warnings and advice very good and useful…
simple but with a touch of wisdom.
jimbob1
On November 9, 2009 at 10:34 am
Miss L…some very useful information (again) you are a walking encyclopedia of knowledge, Well researched. I think the vast majority of your readers will be able to identify to varying degrees. Hope your advice is heeded and marriages and relationships can be salvaged and healed. Thanks.
PhoenixRox
On November 9, 2009 at 10:57 am
Thanks Lill.. That is some finee advice. Gosh, people get so messed up with these things and forget how many people they hurt along the way
strovek
On November 9, 2009 at 11:13 am
Nicely written. Yes, internet is a very tempting place.
Jane Benitez
On November 9, 2009 at 12:41 pm
People should listen to you – you could be putting yourself in a very dangerous situation. You made some very valid points and appreciate your input. Very well done & very informative.
martinpm
On November 9, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Enjoyed reading your article as always, keep them coming.
Themax
On November 9, 2009 at 1:45 pm
exactly my friend to good to be true,but every people si not bad and I new that,Thanks for the article
Sourav
On November 9, 2009 at 2:32 pm
Yeah everyone is not bad. But a lot of them are naughty! be careful!
Christine Ramsay
On November 9, 2009 at 3:20 pm
Very good advice. It is easy to get caught up on these sites.
Christine
STEVE666
On November 9, 2009 at 5:24 pm
Informative, Lily.
You forgot the site: ‘Date a Bonk’. That’s very good. So I’ve been told.
Tanya Wallace
On November 9, 2009 at 8:03 pm
This is such a fantastic topic Lilly and one not touched on often enough! Brilliant write.I think some people get so involved with this they eventually do destroy their own relationship because of their addiction.You had some very valuable advice my friend! Wonderful work!!
Hansika
On November 10, 2009 at 6:22 am
very nice to read on…thanks
Aiyanna
On November 12, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Very nice article and its so true!!! I met my husband on the internet but via an email…. I hate logging on chat lines as you find people who are preying others for an intimate conversation and at times all you want to do is communicate with your family and friends.
People should read this and gain awareness as no many of them sell their souls to the devil by doing unwanted things out there and killing that little unit that they have created in reality.
drelayaraja
On November 13, 2009 at 9:27 pm
Very useful information and advice. Well done.
The Last Ogre
On November 15, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Informative and useful.Thanks.
jaysland
On November 18, 2009 at 8:57 am
Temptation is always there in a marriage relationship. Being a faithful partner is the best way to show your love. The internet is a very dangerous place and these sites should be avoided at all costs. ~Jay
metro7
On November 25, 2009 at 10:20 am
WELL SAID,how true so many people get into trouble without realizing it.these sites are so tempting and misleading.anyway gr8 article even if 1 person heeds your advice your efforts would be worth your time. .thxs n tc .
3abkrino
On November 28, 2009 at 2:03 pm
Nice topic and very original article