Things That Women Hate in Bed
Things that women hate in bed.
It is an undisputed fact that no man would like be thought of as a bad lover but is equally surprising how few seek to learn a few tips that could greatly improve their performance. Here are a few pointers of what women really hate to be a part of their sex life:
Passionless Sex
Most women would agree that feeling like a log of wood during a mechanical process is not the most thrilling experience. Despite this many males treat the event like one being performed on an inflatable woman. The tip here is to be more sensitive and have awareness of how she is feeling. This is not to say that every time you have sex it needs to be a tremendous experience but sometimes it is important to show how exciting an experience it is for you.
Repetitiveness
It is important to keep some level of variation in your sex life. If the whole event consists of the same routine in the same place at the same time in the same way it is not difficult to imagine that your girlfriend or wife will be as excited by the prospect as watching a repeat BBC program that she has yawned at a thousand times before.
Bad Communication
It never hurts to ask your partner what he/she likes in bed. Everyone is different and what works with one may not be the same with another. For example on occasion it may not be enough to just have sex with your partner but to make love to them too.
No Experimentation
Your sex life can soon become stale and dull if you are not willing to pay some heed to trying new things and not being afraid to experiment. A little imagination can go a long way – try varying your routine, your positions, doing it in different (even unusual) places and role playing being just a few examples.
Be aware that women are not expecting every man they meet to be a superman in bed but just a little thought and consideration on your part can work wonders for your relationship. Remember to attempt the exciting and unexpected on occasion and the reward will be well worth the effort put in.
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Post Commentmichelle1965
On July 17, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Well said!!
LOVELYHONEY
On July 17, 2009 at 4:17 pm
treat a wife as u would treat a girl friend
and i assure u she will treat u better
than your girl friend
can ever do
Littlekid137
On July 18, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Well written!
I've been there for 13 years now
On July 18, 2009 at 5:20 pm
Some women have chronic pain from an incurable illness making most physical touch too painful to enjoy and/or she may be too numbed up from pain meds to have an orgasm, yet she is willing to have sex several times a week to meet your sexual needs because of her love for you.
If you have this situation, please don’t lay on your back in bed expecting her to give your oral sex as foreplay every single time you have sex while you don’t bother to even kiss her or say romantic things to her. Because oral sex can be more painful to perform than intercouse, she will become very bored instead of enjoying oral sex, as well as resentful that she is getting ZERO (0) out of your intimate time together, while she is trying her best to fulfill your sexual needs.
Remember, if you are husband and wife, that when you took your wedding vowels, you promised to take this woman in marriage, whether in sickness or in health. There are other things that you may be able to do for her that will give her pleasure like a gentle back or foot massage, or you could just ask her what you can do to please her.
Fortunately, most people don’t find themselves in this type of situation, so be grateful. Remember, the shoe could be on the other foot and it could be the husband with physical illness affecting his sex life and, as a couple, you will have to find a way to keep your wife satisfied.
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On July 20, 2009 at 8:29 pm
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