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Touch Me Here!

It’s hard to know what a woman wants in bed. Read on for a few pointers for a successful sexual encounter.

Women need to be touched often.  In many more ways than one and in many more places than just one.  You men out there, read and learn.

  1. You need to touch our hearts first: Be a sweetie and do something nice for us.  Anything! Getting our car washed, bringing us lunch, and sending us flowers for no reason are great ways to show that you are out to win our hearts (even if you want to get in our pants as well).
  2. Taint our palates: Take us out to eat the most delicious food, bring us some chocolate-covered strawberries, feed us banana cream pie, or buy us our favorite ice cream.

Now, for the real reason you men are reading this:

  1. When initiating sex, don’t just go for the package! Start out slowy, softly, gently.
  2. Undress your woman down to her bra and panties (maybe some you bought her yourself).
  3.  Kiss her all over as your hands cultivate her beautiful curves.  Press down gently with your fingers as you touch her, keeping your palm just barely on her skin.  This should last about 3-4 minutes. Her bra and panties should still be on. 
  4. Then focus your kissing to her mouth.  The gentle thrusts of your tongue against hers is going to excite her very much.
  5. Now you can start focusing on her body.  Make sure her bra and panties are still on.  Begin by gently sweeping your hand over her breasts and feeling her hard nipples through her bra.  Gently squeeze her breasts and feel her nipple erection. Keep kissing her mouth this whole time. 
  6. Slowly slip your hand under her panties and feel her delicate clitoris.  It is very important that you feel it only for a few seconds.  Your woman should be very excited at this time.  She probably feels very wet.  That is a very good thing.
  7. Work your hands back up to her breasts.  Remove her bra and began sucking on her nipples.  If you swish your tongue around them, she’ll go wild.  Start kissing her body again and always go back to her nipples.  Try to maintain some sort of eye contact with her.  She will like to see that you are focused on her as a woman and not only on her breasts.
  8. Remove her panties, slowly.  Good things take time.  Kiss her thighs as you move your tongue closer and closer to her hottest spot.  Let your hands still play with her nipples.  Tease her a little. Women love this.
  9. Lay your woman on her stomach and run your tongue down her back.  Start at her neck and go down her spine as you straddle her (no penetration yet, please). Play with her hair and massage her shoulders a little all the while you are nibbling on her back.
  10. Turn her over. Raise her legs up to your shoulders and start kissing her thighs again. Run your hands up and down her legs as you focus on her eyes. If they are closed, then just look at her and focus on her face. 
  11. Allow her to feel your penis as you rub it up against her thighs.  When you feel she’s ready, gently glide your penis into her vagina.
  12. Start out with gentle thrusts. Your feelings will take over the rest.

Have Fun!

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  1. thestickman

    On September 23, 2008 at 6:40 am


    awesome advice. ;-)

  2. Csilla

    On September 23, 2008 at 1:08 pm


    ..finally someone knows what woman want!!!
    Great article.
    Well done.

  3. goodselfme

    On September 23, 2008 at 3:01 pm


    Everyone should read this.Men to learn, women to be able to instruct their man. I think you found the right title too! Good infomation and adquately described too. A+ on this one dear!

  4. Rana

    On September 26, 2008 at 7:48 am


    Its wonderful, exiting and practicable. A man should go to his woman very gently, softly and in a sexy way like what is narrated here.

  5. me

    On October 7, 2008 at 2:31 pm


    romantic sex hardly fails, but depending on the woman she could like a rough go as well. this is a great way to show how hot you think she is and how badly you want her (always keep the eye contact though

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