Understanding Sexual Fantasies
by Do you know that Sexual fanties may come in different forms? Find out here.
Sexual fantasies are thoughts and images, daydreams and scenarios which arouse one’s sexual urges and desires. Sexual fantasies may come in form of future sexual expectations or hopes, a replay of past experiences, or a combination of both. Although, sexual fantasies are common to both adult and children, but they commonly occur during adolescent stage.
Sexual fantasies are normal life experiences. People fantasize at one point or the other. It is even common for people to fantasize during sexual intercourse, or even become aroused in order to engage in sexual intercourse.
(a) Types of fantasies
(i) Romantic fantasies e.g. Romeo and Juliet
(ii) Social status fantasies e.g. king, queen, leader etc.
(iii) Fantasies relating to physical characteristics and charisma e.g. Spiderman, Bionic woman etc.
(iv) Sports fantasies e.g. successful sportsmen and women.
(v) Sexual fantasies e.g. involving in different places and with different people.
(b) Common sexual fantasies
(i) Dating
(ii) Marriage
(iii) Falling in love
(iv) A hero
(v) Intimacy
(c) Reasons for sexual fantasies
(i) Source of sexual pleasure
(ii) Means of testing and rehearsing various sexual activities.
(iii) To enhance safe involvement in sexual activities we may never which to be involved in.
(iv) As means of fulfilling our sexual desires without hurting ourselves or those we love.
(v) To increase sexual arousal during sexual intercourse to relieve boredom.
(vi) To heighten a partner’s sexual effectiveness and efficiency.
(vii) To overcome anxiety about sexuality.
(viii) To explore new sexual realities, experiences and preferences.
(d) When do people fantasize?
(i) When they are alone.
(ii) When with a partner.
(iii) When watching a romantic movie.
(iv) When watching or listening to hero in action.
(v) When hoping for a date, outing or appointment.
(vi) When engaging in sexual intercourse.
(vii) When one flashes back on previous pleasurable romantic or sexual experience.
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On October 27, 2010 at 12:58 pm
i read your article its too true and good thanx for share great writing
webseowriters
On October 27, 2010 at 2:35 pm
very interesting
Philyra Clio
On October 27, 2010 at 5:10 pm
interesting!
Kaye TM
On October 27, 2010 at 7:10 pm
cool article.lol
The Soul Explorer
On October 27, 2010 at 8:53 pm
I agree. People fantasize when they are alone.
sandcastle
On October 29, 2010 at 12:29 am
Interesting read!
Cynthia Bartlett
On October 29, 2010 at 12:33 pm
Good article but, like me, you really need to proof read and not rely on spell check. Some of my “misspelled” (spelled correctly but wrong word) I have just let go and let it stand. Others, because the meaning of what I was saying had “drastically” changed, I went back in and revised.
BRENDAKSHELTON
On October 30, 2010 at 8:00 am
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LOVELYHONEY
On November 1, 2010 at 2:21 pm
sexual fantasy
is the commonest of sexual activities,
of a subconconscious mind
and
as you rightly say
many couples during intercourse
fancies portray,
it replaces the Kamasutra in many a way
and helps one from cheating
or going astray.
right now as out of my window i see
a young .teen………………
READ THE REST THERE
AND U KNOW NOW WHERE
MY PROFILE OF COURSE.
R.Laws
On November 3, 2010 at 7:46 am
Interesting article!
Bruce Officer
On November 6, 2010 at 6:39 pm
To part d of your lists I’d add “when in a boring meeting”!
Sheri Fresonke Harper
On November 12, 2010 at 11:50 am
Great topic and write up:)
Sheri Fresonke Harper
On November 12, 2010 at 11:52 am
Great topic and write up, who doesn’t dream sometimes:)
CHIPMUNK
On February 6, 2011 at 9:57 am
well informed