Virginity: Save It? Or Loose It?

“If you really love me.” – this is a popular line from guys. And this only means that they’re asking for woman’s virginity. The only proof that the girls love them as they say. And that’s B***S***! It’s an old alibi that guys still using nowadays. But let’s put it this way, if our boyriend really loves us, he will respect and wait for the right time ’till we get married.  It’s an old fashion saying but who says we can never use them? And I bet many will raise their eyebrows on this but isn’t it worthy and only right to give ourself to the one whom God has destined us to be with forever? 

You think he’s the one and giving in to him is the last thing you will never regret. That’s what you feel now. But how about tomorrow when you bumped into a man’s arms and suddenly, there’s a spark that you have never felt when you were with your guy. Remember, you can only be sure that he’s the one if you walk in the aisle and change vows. Those in relationship who have been together for so many years didn’t end together, how much more with those out there who only been together for a couple of months?

So how do women can control the urge to have sex with their boyfriends or just with somebody they hitch on with? Here are some things that might warn women and hold on tight to their “flowers”.

1.) The idea of getting HIV is one hell of scary thing that we might get from strangers. 

2.) Getting pregnant. Yes, there are contraceptive that we can choose from. But these are not really 100%            safe. Plus the fact that if you two are in heat, there might be a time that you’ll forget everything.

3.) He might think you’re an easy girl. Guys like challenges. So what they would think if you easily give in?              Worse is, he might talk about what happened to his friends. A study says that MEN indulge in gossip                  more than women about secret liaisons, inept lovers and overpaid colleagues, so be warned.

4.) You might be a victim of video scandal which is very popular today even in hotel. You never know.

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5.) Always keep in mind those loving words that your parents remind you. Can your conscience take it if you          will just loose your virginity in a snap where your parents keep and take care of you for years?

6.) ‘You can tell if a guy is serious with you after sex’.  Would you rather risk your virginity just to prove this?

     How about – You can tell that a guy really loves you if he respects you all the way to the aisle?

7.) Curiousity kill the cats. And being curious about watching porn and reading porn mags will just keep you in        the mood to have sex with a guy. 

8.) Always bring something or think of something that will interest you both far from physical contact. Sporty          things like wall climbing, jogging, paintball will do.

9.) Invite your family or friends to come join you so you’ll know each other better and will avoid you to think of        a nasty thing to do.

10.)  You can enjoy SEX if you are guilt free. And that is when you are husband and wife!