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The truth about why majority of men cheat.

Do you know what is the number one reason for  most men cheating?

At least ninety two percent of men cheat but it is not  mainly about sex.

An emotional disconnection in feeling under-appreciated

Majority of men are emotional  beings, they may not look or seem that way and off-course they don’t mention it either. Becoming insecure is the catalyst, when  a man is unable to be comfortable talking to his wife the one  in the world that he should be able to talk to about anything, then it makes him feel under-appreciated. 

The daily issues like bill, children and chores, allows couples to drift away, often another woman will make a man feel good about himself, and appreciated too. Not every man may be the same in a way of showing strength, some may look strong-willed,  but on the inside they are insecure like everybody else.  He wants to feel valued like you would.

A Winning Mentality

Men  have a winning mentality, when they watch a sports game they enjoy to win, having an ownership in the team, but if they see the game is not going well the game is not watched till the end.

If one wants to  to be in a relationship you got to understand the knowledge of a man.  Your man should feel like he is winning when he does something for you.

Do men cheat on their wives with another who is attractive?

You may think it is the reason for cheating, but the answer is NO

Eighty eight percent of men cheat with woman  that are no better looking than their wives  and are not good in shape either.

Things get rocky and years go by without any improvement and sometimes  couples get to the point of living separate lives and are still in the same house, just avoiding each other. In cases like this other persons show interest in their lives.

It is not about sex, people are been made to believe this, no matter how you look, or how kind you are  relationships don’t work if two people lack interest in each other

Only seven percent of men confess to cheating,

The truth about cheating

When your partner spends more time out the house

A lack of sex

When he avoids contact, doesn’t touch  you like he used to, when you first met.

His cell phone is  not answered

You are criticized even more

These signs are not only if he is cheating also for when he is about to cheat.

When a man can’t stop talking about another woman you know there has to be  something going on.

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  1. Erin Miller

    On November 18, 2011 at 2:11 pm


    I should write an article similar to this in lesbian relationships lol. A good article though for sure.

  2. ulstermans

    On November 18, 2011 at 2:14 pm


    good , informative…..

  3. girishpuri

    On November 18, 2011 at 2:31 pm


    only men ? lol

  4. Sneha Sunny

    On November 18, 2011 at 2:35 pm


    nice work!!

  5. LoveDoctorLoveGoodBye

    On November 18, 2011 at 2:36 pm


    This is good to know. Most women immediately think that when a man cheats is because the wife is not satisfying him. There is an emotional disconnection that leads to infidelity just like you pointed out.

  6. antonfkip

    On November 18, 2011 at 3:04 pm


    awesome dude…..

  7. oziasrul

    On November 18, 2011 at 3:44 pm


    AMAZZZZINGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. lapasan

    On November 18, 2011 at 4:56 pm


    Women should heed these signs or else their man could be in the arms of another woman.

  9. Redfiery

    On November 18, 2011 at 5:46 pm


    I agree with you love doctor. Sex is a very different issue and yes you are right when emotional bond is very important in a relationship.

  10. tnvrstar

    On November 18, 2011 at 6:25 pm


    Very good article.

  11. bagus69

    On November 18, 2011 at 6:44 pm


    good , very informative…..

  12. juny423

    On November 18, 2011 at 7:25 pm


    Interesting and…yes..men!

  13. pattiann

    On November 18, 2011 at 7:26 pm


    I will keep this in mind if I ever get the love of my life as at least a boyfriend then a husband. Right now he does not know I am alive. Even brought a girl to my house, saying she was his book keeper the next tme he came without her and I asked him who she was.

  14. yes me

    On November 18, 2011 at 7:44 pm


    I too often wonder, what makes men cheat with cheats? I think it is not, solely a man thing, and that’s the truth cheers Chips

  15. okkhattak

    On November 18, 2011 at 8:01 pm


    good , informative….

  16. Moses Ingram

    On November 18, 2011 at 8:33 pm


    Interesting article.

  17. ricara

    On November 18, 2011 at 8:36 pm


    emotional security is the answer to avoid separation and break-ups

  18. Ram Bansal

    On November 18, 2011 at 9:46 pm


    Highly relevant points, you made, about men. Yes, it a feeling of more secured rather than of more sex, when men prefer other women.

  19. Eunice Tan

    On November 18, 2011 at 11:16 pm


    I agree there should be no reason for cheating

  20. xyz999

    On November 19, 2011 at 1:09 am


    You are right Chipmunk, he may turn out to be the Incredible Hulk but inside, he’s just another baby. Good job.

  21. Yvhes P.

    On November 19, 2011 at 3:30 am


    I like your post. It’s good my hubby loves me =)

  22. gaby7

    On November 19, 2011 at 4:50 am


    A superb analysis here Chip!

  23. lonelyplanet

    On November 19, 2011 at 7:20 am


    This is a shocking revelation.

  24. iva75cpb

    On November 19, 2011 at 9:48 am


    You have my “like” on this one. Great work!

  25. Aroosa Gloomy

    On November 19, 2011 at 12:18 pm


    I like it.

  26. thetoplad

    On November 19, 2011 at 1:05 pm


    good information

  27. Eliza26

    On November 21, 2011 at 3:23 pm


    Interesting. Your article makes me think…

  28. realityspeaks

    On November 22, 2011 at 8:59 am


    Awesome post

  29. rizkiandreas

    On November 24, 2011 at 9:22 am


    very good information

  30. ittech

    On November 25, 2011 at 7:58 am


    good work thanks

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