What Do You Think Might Cause a Soldier’s Wife/husband to Cheat?

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*My opinion counts too:

*When a spouse is away doesn’t mean people will cheat:

There’s this old saying, “While the cat’s away the mouse will play,”people…this is not always the truth because there are many more faithful women who do not cheat than those who do. Any spouse whose husband/wife maybe deployed overseas and away from their families has a big load on their shoulders to carry around on a daily basis and they deserve all the praise we can give them. These spouses deserve a big round of applause because they are supporting their spouses while they’re away and they’re being truthful, faithful, and good caregivers of their homes and family.   

*There maybe women who cheat but is there a reason?

Many men/women may be tempted to cheat because they were never shown any affections by their parents as a young child and never had any self-esteem and self-confidence, and when insecurities and fear falls on their shoulders, they feel they need to have a close relationship with someone to ease their feelings of fear. There are many men/women in our society who never were showed true affections and love, understanding, security in their lives, and the only means of getting this type of feelings is to have the attention of the opposite sex. People, this is not easy for a person like this to survive when they have a load on them because they’ve never been faced with these responsibilities of doing it without their spouse to make their decisions.

Then you have men/women who resent their spouses because they feel they have abandoned them and they will cheat to get the feeling they’re getting even for their spouse leaving them and their family. Then you have people who cheat because they feel they’re missing out on the good times in their lives and they start seeking these good times through other sources and end up accidentally getting romantically involved with another person. Let’s face it, people can become weak when they are exposed to someones attentions. We might also look at the aspect that there are people who couldn’t be faithful if they knew they would lose everything they have in life. This is just a fact in our society.

You’ll also find people who will end up cheating because they feel confined and without a sexual relationship and it’s more than they can handle. They’ll start to confide in the opposite sex about their feelings and their needs, and before you know it, a romantic encounter will follow.

*Summation:

When an unconditional love lives in the heart of a person, there will not be any cheating by either spouse regardless of the situation.