What Has Led to a Rise in Hetero-anal Sex?
by Women feel insulted by the idea that a man would rather have sex with her anally that vaginally, considering the proximity. Many women may think that their sense of sexuality is being traded for something else and maybe offended by such an advance. One male friend told me that it is not about competition, anal sex is just an extension and women should not be affronted by the idea.
What is the reason behind the rage in hetero-anal sex?
There has been a recent rise in heterosexual males desiring anal intercourse with their female spouse as oppose to vaginal penetration. Many women have deemed the ordeal unsavory, painful and repulsive but comply because their spouse liked the idea of it. Most women flinched at the idea of anal sex and others find the idea inconceivable and ad nauseum. For some women, anal sex is a new and exciting way of pleasing their spouse and offering the ultimate pleasure.
Psychologists claim that the rise in hetero-anal sex may be due to many young men growing up with problems regarding their sexualities. The proliferation of pornographic material on the Internet has been epiphenomena of this as many young men have altering sexual orientations and increase sexual expectations due to the premature and over-exposure to sex.
Sexual expectation has been elevated due to the availability of porn. It is the same influence of pornography which lead the world wide emergence and eventual acceptance of oral sex. The dissemination of homosexual pornography sensitized and also gave certitude to homosexuals and clandestine Gays to be liberal about their sexual orientation.
Many young men assume that because a couple has hetero-anal sex in porn and the female seems to be enjoying it, it means that women will enjoy the ordeal in real life. Persons do not understand the difference between paid actors on a screen as oppose to the reality of the situation. Many boys are being sexually oriented by on line pornography
It may appear that we have encountered another sexual orientation with the advent and permeation of hetero-anal sex. Some religious assertions contend that men who are having anal sex with women possess homosexual tendency and are using hetero-anal sex as a means of bridging their emotions. Some claim that it allow men to channel their homosexual desires while maintaining a heterosexual front. It allows the male to engage his sexual needs without stirring up or disturbing his perceived sexuality and social experience.
Then there is the gratification side to the debate as men attests that anal penetration is far more gratifying that vaginal intercourse. Some males contend that vaginal sex is becoming normative and mundane. Anal sex adds another dimension to sexual intercourse and it makes intercourse more wholesome and diverse. Males declare that the rectum is tighter than the vagina and that vagina sometimes loses elasticity due to child birth.
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Post CommentWennie Estares
On November 19, 2009 at 12:53 am
informatively stimulating
tyrese
On November 19, 2009 at 12:15 pm
people are definitely finding ways to increase pleasure. i dont care what a man does in is bedroom. thats his business but for e personally..i say no to anal sex. women come a dime a dozen and why would i want to go there its like 2 or so inches apart. i say no to anal sex with women. i dnt care what other men do in thier time. its simple a no no for me
Anal Sex Experts
On November 23, 2009 at 4:00 am
I consider myself an expert in anal sex, and well…it’s just great.
BradONeill
On November 23, 2009 at 1:54 pm
I dont think it has anything to do with homosexual desires at all. I think it is about the power of getting a few moans out of a woman. It is very exciting to a man to be so large as to illicit moans of pain from a woman while copulating. This is not a sadomasochistic thing so much as an “ok I am adequate thing” and then if it evolves into a pleasurable experience for the woman that is the icing on the cake.
Leonardo da Vinci E.
On December 2, 2009 at 12:52 pm
Wow! You said a mouthfull. But sexuality is not constantly evolving at all. The fact is that sexual orientations which are varied have been around all along. Its just that some people who love their own sexuality have had a hatred against the sexuality as expressed by some others and have long colluded to suppress them by every means necessary. However, people have more recently been winning their human rights to be themselves as they wish to be and so now people are more open in expressing the varied differences of their desires. There is no need to fear it…one just needs to be careful to find someone who likes are the same as ones own. If you were more flexible in your mindset you would not view phorn as a threat, but a harmless friend which might allow your mate to satisfy what may be a normal desire to experience variety by fantisizing it(and some men especially desire that variety), and thus will never violate his agreement to be only with you in actuality because he has a harmless variety to keep him satisfied,except at those moments he desires the real thing….and that would be a sudden and repeated interest in YOU.
Ophelia Balls
On September 17, 2010 at 6:28 pm
“On the other hand, women feel insulted by the idea that a man would rather have sex with her anally than vaginally, considering the proximity.”
Proximity? Huh? So…what about oral sex proximity? Is it better or worse in your opinion that the mouth is so far away from one’s own genitals? Should a women feel insulted that a man might want to go down on her instead of screw her? I don’t think proximity has anything to do with it.
It’s taboo, it’s exciting! And no matter your research, your afterthought of “Additionally I have read that using a lubricant and being patient, enhances the experiences.” tells me you, never have, and likely never will experience it.
p.s. re: “Women are increasingly being opened to the idea of exploring anal sex with their partners.”
Opened to the idea? GREAT PHRASE!