What Has Led to a Rise in Hetero-anal Sex?
by Women feel insulted by the idea that a man would rather have sex with her anally that vaginally, considering the proximity. Many women may think that their sense of sexuality is being traded for something else and maybe offended by such an advance. One male friend told me that it is not about competition, anal sex is just an extension and women should not be affronted by the idea.
Women are increasingly being opened to the idea of exploring anal sex with their partners. Some women claim that anal sex is very stimulating as your male partner is able to ignite the very sensitive nerve endings in that region bringing you undeniable pleasure during climax. Other females say that it is different from homosexual intercourse as partners tend to be just as passionate and caring as traditional copulation. Women declare that if your mate is sensitive and caring then it would be a painless, loving and beautiful experience. Others state that women should consider it an honor that a man would be willing to insert his organ in that area.
On the other hand, women feel insulted by the idea that a man would rather have sex with her anally than vaginally, considering the proximity. Many women may think that their sense of sexuality is being traded for something else and may be offended by such an advance. One male friend told me that it is not about competition, anal sex is just an extension and women should not be affronted by the idea. Some women claim that men who do that are selfish since only the male experience stimulation and the female experience pain. Other women claim that the bleeding is very uncomfortable, repugnant and that it is a good way to catch a venereal disease. For many women, anal sex is simply a sexual taboo.
At the end of the day, a person’s sexual orientation and what they do in the privacy of their bedroom is an individual and their spouses business. Some people will not cross the line on certain sexual activities and others are opened to new experiences. It is quite evident that hetero-anal sex is here to stay and it is not going anywhere. Human sexuality is constantly evolving. There was a time when interracial relationships, oral sex, homosexuality was a taboo and we have move past such social repulsions. My best advice is to use a condom every time and be caring with your partner. Additionally I have read that using a lubricant and being patient, enhances the experiences. And if your spouse should accidentally slip to the rectum, just holler “wrong hole!”
What do you think?
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Post CommentWennie Estares
On November 19, 2009 at 12:53 am
informatively stimulating
tyrese
On November 19, 2009 at 12:15 pm
people are definitely finding ways to increase pleasure. i dont care what a man does in is bedroom. thats his business but for e personally..i say no to anal sex. women come a dime a dozen and why would i want to go there its like 2 or so inches apart. i say no to anal sex with women. i dnt care what other men do in thier time. its simple a no no for me
Anal Sex Experts
On November 23, 2009 at 4:00 am
I consider myself an expert in anal sex, and well…it’s just great.
BradONeill
On November 23, 2009 at 1:54 pm
I dont think it has anything to do with homosexual desires at all. I think it is about the power of getting a few moans out of a woman. It is very exciting to a man to be so large as to illicit moans of pain from a woman while copulating. This is not a sadomasochistic thing so much as an “ok I am adequate thing” and then if it evolves into a pleasurable experience for the woman that is the icing on the cake.
Leonardo da Vinci E.
On December 2, 2009 at 12:52 pm
Wow! You said a mouthfull. But sexuality is not constantly evolving at all. The fact is that sexual orientations which are varied have been around all along. Its just that some people who love their own sexuality have had a hatred against the sexuality as expressed by some others and have long colluded to suppress them by every means necessary. However, people have more recently been winning their human rights to be themselves as they wish to be and so now people are more open in expressing the varied differences of their desires. There is no need to fear it…one just needs to be careful to find someone who likes are the same as ones own. If you were more flexible in your mindset you would not view phorn as a threat, but a harmless friend which might allow your mate to satisfy what may be a normal desire to experience variety by fantisizing it(and some men especially desire that variety), and thus will never violate his agreement to be only with you in actuality because he has a harmless variety to keep him satisfied,except at those moments he desires the real thing….and that would be a sudden and repeated interest in YOU.
Ophelia Balls
On September 17, 2010 at 6:28 pm
“On the other hand, women feel insulted by the idea that a man would rather have sex with her anally than vaginally, considering the proximity.”
Proximity? Huh? So…what about oral sex proximity? Is it better or worse in your opinion that the mouth is so far away from one’s own genitals? Should a women feel insulted that a man might want to go down on her instead of screw her? I don’t think proximity has anything to do with it.
It’s taboo, it’s exciting! And no matter your research, your afterthought of “Additionally I have read that using a lubricant and being patient, enhances the experiences.” tells me you, never have, and likely never will experience it.
p.s. re: “Women are increasingly being opened to the idea of exploring anal sex with their partners.”
Opened to the idea? GREAT PHRASE!