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What is Sexy to a Man

Let’s face it, men think about sex a good portion of the day, but what do they find "sexy"?

Have you ever thought about why some people are considered sexy, while others, possibly of similar physical attributes, are not? They say a man is attracted to a women because of her appearance and falls in love with her as a result. Have you ever stopped to think what is sexy and what is not? It goes beyond pretty and ugly, it might even be something we cannot perceive, such as an attitude, but if we could put it in pictures, this is what it might look like.

What was Hot, isn’t

At one time fat was considered sexy, it was a sign of wealth. If you were fat, you could afford food. At a point art so often depicted chubby looking women, at it became a standard of perfection to be a bit chunky. Of course what few people realized is that some artists were using corpses for models, as such the women in the paintings tended to be a bit bloated.
Being overweight is not healthy, nor is being underweight. Some men adore women with “meat on their bones” and other men, prefer the waifs.

One or Two?

Some men find women more attractive in pairs. They enjoy watching women together, or even with another male. Is this necessarily sexy, or just sexual? Since a mans mind thinks about sex far more frequently than a woman, perhaps he figures with more women, the better his chances are.

Many men have at one time or another, fantasized about being with more than one girl at a time. Other men are purely monogamous. Even when happily with one woman, they often still desire to look at other women purely for sexual fantasy.

Leather or Lace?

Some men prefer soft fabrics on a woman, silk and lace. White to show purity, fabrics that show softness and femininity. Some fabrics cling to a womans body better than others, showing the curves and her natural shape, silk and lace is more sexy to most men, than is flannel.

Some men prefer their women to be a bit more individual in dress, more avant-garde, not so powdery perfect. I have to admit I fall into the second type of male here. My wife puts on black, and look out!

Are you a Breast man?

Some men are attracted to a woman’s breasts more than any other feature, thus women often go to enormous lengths to accentuate their breasts. Simple things like a specialized, uplifting bra are often used, but some women also use duct tape to lift their breasts and create a fuller, firmer look. Further extremes involve surgery, which, in some cases, have caused health problems.

Other men are attracted to a nice round, firm rump, and long legs. Women have used devices to make their bum look rounder, and have put their feet through pain by wearing high healed shoes, just to look sexier for men, or their man in particular.

Less is More

Sometimes seeing less is more sexy and sensual than seeing every little detail. This model is truly sexy, her back is revealed, and her face is at an angle that suggests some mystery. In many cases men find partially clothed women more sexy than fully naked women. The mystery is captivating, the thrill of convincing her to undress, and the desire to watch it are undeniably male traits.

But Can She Cook?

Some foods are aphrodisiacs, they make either the male or female feel more sexually aroused, one of the best known foods for this is oysters. Foods that are high in iron are important for sexuality. Additionally, they say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Fill a man up with good food and he will love you forever. If so my wife had better take care, because in our home, I do all the cooking.

All photos were from Wikimedia with the exception of the Goth girls and the sexy broccoli, which were from Flickr. Please check all licensing agreements before using any of these great photos.

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  1. nobert soloria bermosa

    On November 3, 2008 at 3:02 am


    sexy to me is slender and one that carries a dress well

  2. James DeVere

    On November 3, 2008 at 3:46 am


    Fascinating. This Triond is transfixing. I’m sexy, you’re sexy – we are all SEXY.

    Attitude, personality and fun-loving nature; really turns me on. Incredible article.

    Keep up the hot work.

    J

  3. Schaller

    On November 3, 2008 at 8:54 am


    Nothing is better than a woman in white. Except for a bride. They scare the hell out of me.

  4. eddiego65

    On November 3, 2008 at 9:31 am


    Sexy article. I believe sexiness is more than physical, it’s about every aspect of her person.

  5. David Irvine

    On November 3, 2008 at 12:01 pm


    What about legs and ass? great article

  6. C Jordan

    On November 3, 2008 at 3:38 pm


    Loved the broccoli pic, like the article its great fun.

  7. ROYALTY22

    On November 3, 2008 at 3:51 pm


    THIS ARTICAL WAS GREAT…

  8. Ruby Hawk

    On November 3, 2008 at 7:00 pm


    Ok,now we know what a man likes best in a woman. You are right some women that are not even pretty are very sexy.

  9. Johanan Rakkav

    On November 3, 2008 at 7:55 pm


    Not everyone would’ve thought to start this article with a Stone Age fertility fetish. :)

  10. Karen Gross

    On November 3, 2008 at 9:39 pm


    I think this is the first article I’ve seen where most of the comments are from men.
    Let’s get back to those days when ‘plump’ was sexy.

  11. kondude

    On November 4, 2008 at 3:27 am


    nice article! i never knew most of this.

  12. Peter Cimino

    On November 4, 2008 at 11:22 am


    You make some valid points here. Nicely done.

  13. Joie Schmidt

    On November 4, 2008 at 1:05 pm


    Nice article – silly men*

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  14. maria kamsten

    On November 4, 2008 at 1:50 pm


    great article,good points.enjoyed reading.

  15. Rana Sinha

    On November 5, 2008 at 3:24 am


    Thanks Mark, for another good read. Now we know more about an eternal mystery.

  16. Glynis Smy

    On November 5, 2008 at 5:54 am


    Interesting article, fun stuff!

  17. Redburn

    On November 5, 2008 at 8:40 am


    Nice writer!

  18. Donnalyn Weir

    On November 5, 2008 at 2:39 pm


    great! well done.:)

  19. Mary Contrary

    On November 6, 2008 at 9:30 pm


    Thank you so much for this article and the resources you have listed! We must all take care of each other. It was an interesting read as well! Kudos!

  20. Lady Ravenheart

    On November 18, 2008 at 1:09 pm


    Methinks men find what they can not have sexy. A chastity belt wouldst drive even the most staid of men wild. The unobtainable is often the most attractive and the object of their fantasy.

  21. SteroidFern4

    On December 5, 2008 at 12:01 pm


    u guys are perverts and stupid

  22. Idontknowwhats sexie

    On December 22, 2008 at 1:37 am


    Its all in the reaction i get from a woman that makes me feel attracted to her

  23. Little Miss Lizzy

    On January 2, 2009 at 8:20 pm


    Liked this very much – beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

  24. mali80

    On February 5, 2009 at 5:47 am


    very very beatiful sexy

  25. cann't say sorry!!!

    On May 7, 2009 at 7:55 am


    those girls ar soooooo sexyyyyyyy
    !WOW!

  26. bob

    On May 12, 2009 at 3:59 pm


    nice

  27. Asha

    On June 11, 2009 at 11:41 am


    I totally disagree with the idea that men think about sex more than women. It depends on the person.

  28. Pooya

    On July 7, 2009 at 10:54 am


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  29. tigerlilly

    On November 26, 2009 at 8:14 pm


    It’s what’s on the inside that matters,all looks fade

  30. nena

    On December 1, 2009 at 9:23 am


    nice article….is nice to hear from a guy what is sexy?

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