What’s Your Sex Drive Really Like Girls?
by Sex is important in any relationship. Whilst many women would say it isn’t the all and be all of a successful union, it does hold significant bearing despite some saying that’s bullshit. So what is yours like boys and girls?
Girls, be honest about your state of play when it comes to your sexual libido.
Guys take heed also. For men, they usually come out with remarks that can offend the female sex.
“Women don’t value sex as high as they do that new handbag they just bought” – that’s something a lot of guys say nowadays. Awful isn’t it?
Hate to admit it girls, but many wonder why guys do stray. Whilst it is true that there are many women out there who enjoy a healthy and fulfilling sex life, there are just as many who just seem to dismiss the subject out of hand.
But just what are the reasons?
For most women, the modern age is full of demands and pressures. So much more than a few decades ago. Today, women compete for previously male dominated jobs. Women have homes to run and millions have children to care for. By the time all that is taken care of, most girls just want to slob out and watch their favourite TV show or read that great book you are engrossed in. Soon you look at the clock and decide its time for bed. You need sleep!
So what happens in a relationship when the time or energy for sex is just not there? After a while you get used to “not getting it” and that book and chocolate seems ever more appealing as you dismiss thoughts of intimacy into the “well that was then, this is now” part of your brain.
Though there are women who do question their sex lives. Men do it all the time! “Am I good enough for her”, “Am I big enough for her”, “Is she enjoying it?” and “Does she really orgasm?”. Whilst men will deny those statements, they are just showing male bravado and being the big tough guy. So try not to buy into their confidence too much girls.
Another is “Am I really the best like she says I am?”. Most men secretly question this at the back of their minds. Let’s face it, girls love to compliment and really don’t want to hurt a man’s feelings, especially if they love him. Truth, bullshit or saving the relationship from possible decline, either reason girls are great at excusing any shortcomings with a false smile and hope for the man in their lives.
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Post CommentRosettaartist1
On November 8, 2011 at 12:17 am
Well…………… if the drive is good, what about the driver…. ha ha!
LoveDoctor
On November 8, 2011 at 1:41 am
I’ve had no complaints. Does that answer your question? Lol.
Women’s lack of sex drive could be that they don’t feel sexy.
CHIPMUNK
On November 8, 2011 at 5:40 am
I too have no complaints
Brande
On November 8, 2011 at 8:25 pm
OMG! Can’t you tell that a man wrote this!
There are so many points in this that I could refer to and in fact argue with-backed up with statistics, however the only point i would like to make is that we are all different, we all have different needs, yes I agree the key to a good ’sexual’ relationship aswell as a good relationship, marriage, partnership is communication, but also understanding, respect, and a good sense of humour too. It is all to easy nowadays for BOTH a man and a woman to stray looking for greener grass!
but women are not mind readers either! women need pointing in the same direction, and women have fears too. no we dont worry about our DICK SIZE! But we worry just the same! and we can all be sarcastic and arrogant my friend.
Alison
On November 8, 2011 at 9:08 pm
What is the woman “Brande” above going on about? This is a well researched article based on facts viewed by many sexual psychologists. I am a sex therapist myself and whether this article is written by a man or a woman has no bearing – much of what is stated is FACT with HUMOR thrown in. Discussing sex should not be taboo in today’s society.
Brande
On November 8, 2011 at 10:15 pm
The point I was making was that this article is very one sided, its not ONLY for a woman to please a man ‘to stop him from looking elsewhere for sex, but in fact for a man also to please a woman!
I agree its all about communication but not just for a woman to do ‘all’ the communicating!
If you read this article you will in fact see that there is a very one sided opinion ‘male version’ but in fact all the points can be applied to a woman too, men are stressed, men get tired, don’t want sex ‘much the same as a woman! women want to be told by their man how he wants pleasing in bed, direction from him, do men not bullshit or lie and tell thier partners that they are ‘the best sex they had? women apparently view a handbag more exciting than sex! What about a man’s car? Or football? How many guys outt there rate there cars higher than sex??? Do men not take medication that can interfere with their sex drive? Antidepressents as Craigz has stated or is that all just women too? Are there no men out there that have the stresses of looking after children? Oh again women make them all by themselves-and the responsibility of those children lies soley with the woman. Do men never moan, have things on thier minds? sulk? ( ALL. The points made apply to BOTH MEN and WOMEN,
I’m not suggesting that this article is badly written, just the opposite, i read much of Craigz articles,I think its well written, just very one-sided.
I Totally agree, discussing sex should not be taboo in todays society, but lets get it right now, Two people together enjoying a sexual relationship BOTH men and women need to communcate, share, guide each other
NOT JUST A WOMAN.
Alison…
When a couple go for ’sex therapy’ is it both the man and woman who attend together? Or just the woman? Do all the problems a sexual relationship may face lay with the woman? No!
Robert T
On November 9, 2011 at 1:51 pm
Why are people slating this author? If anything he talks sense. The points here do go for both men and women when it comes to sex and I agree this article does slant towards sexist views from a man. But the case in point is the facts speak for themselves. Some men are afraid as some women are. The men that are usually value their partner but perhaps too shy to communicate. Women no doubt are the same. Great article in my opinion and he says it how it is. Funny too!
Cassie Loves Lesbians
On November 9, 2011 at 1:58 pm
Hmmmm…what can I say to this? Whoever this Craigz is he sounds nuts. But mentions much that people dare not say.
Ruby Hawk
On November 10, 2011 at 8:49 pm
I think it goes both ways after the newness wears off.
KittyK
On November 30, 2011 at 7:58 pm
Craig you have written a very good article and where the rants of a few people above come from, who knows! Shame on them!!!
A well connected couple will always find ways to communicate, keep their romance fun and well and keep the sparks exciting…
ImKarn23
On December 4, 2011 at 11:21 am
lack of communication is such a deal breaker! Nobody has a crystal ball and some need to be told more than once. Patience…Patience..